[rapunza1977]

Originally Posted by Possiblehousemate

How bad is that!

We have been dating 4 months, since before Xmas and seen each other ALOT! The plan was to go to his house.. but 3 days before valentines i began to get ignored, i tried calling and all that stuff, but he is active on facebook yet i'm being ignored..

I didn't get one text or message saying happy valentines.. so who knows what has happened?

Is it best to just MOVE ON already you think? Cause this is what my head is telling me to do? I'm angry at him!

Hmmmmmmmmmm could it be possible he has met someone else?

[Niamh.]

Harsh........................

[rapunza1977]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Harsh........................

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by rapunza1977

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb!

[*mazedsalv**]

Thats horrible

[Crimson Dynamo]

how does the op know that official status is dumpsville?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rapunza1977

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

I was talking about being dumped on Valentines day being harsh

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by thebeast

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb!

aaawwww, thanks Beasty

[rapunza1977]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

I was talking about being dumped on Valentines day being harsh

Ah sorry!

My bad!

It's only just another day to be honest though is it not?

Loads of nonsense if you ask me. And before anyone wades in about my being single and sad and as got no cards, I have a lovely guy who treats me every other week, do not need "the most romantic day of the year" to prove it!


Just another way of cashing in...........................tacky tacky taaaacky!

[rapunza1977]

Originally Posted by thebeast

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb!

Did I say anything untoward again Niamh? No, I was only commenting.

Her posts are always spot on....................not a personal attack here

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by rapunza1977

Did I say anything untoward again Niamh? No, I was only commenting.

Her posts are always spot on....................not a personal attack here

Okay dude.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rapunza1977

Ah sorry!

My bad!

It's only just another day to be honest though is it not?

Loads of nonsense if you ask me. And before anyone wades in about my being single and sad and as got no cards, I have a lovely guy who treats me every other week, do not need "the most romantic day of the year" to prove it!


Just another way of cashing in...........................tacky tacky taaaacky!

Yeah, I agree with you but when you're younger or at the beginning of a relationship it means more. Plus, If something crap like being dumped happens on Valentines Day you have to relive the bad memories even more so every year cos you have all the romantic and lovey dovey ****e being pushed in your face for a week or so!!

[Crimson Dynamo]

the upside is that you get 364 days to get a new valentine

[rapunza1977]

Or................................................ .................................................g o out this weekend and pull a hottie!!!!!

[Sticks]

Originally Posted by Judas Iscariot

Yes. It's a holiday with no real signifigance. A bit like Easter & Christmas rolled into one.

But my Chinese friends find it very significant. I even had a Chinese takeout today

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Sticks

But my Chinese friends find it very significant. I even had a Chinese takeout today

i hope it was not KFC

[Sticks]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

i hope it was not KFC

It was from the China Town Express on Stowell Street in Newcastle

[Possiblehousemate]

It's fine, i'm tough i can take criticism easily, only upsets ya when its somebody ya trust, I'm feeling better today anyway, Am still being ignored. I'm confident he will want to chat at some point and when he does i will just explain to him he is a LOOOOSER!! ><

He was the only person i told about ma bb success though, so i should probs tell him i got rejected incase he decides to spread it like wildfire outta revenge.

[Possiblehousemate]

Oh and i agree it is a BIG CASH IN, like the other holidays, but cash in or not, it is pushed in your face how happy all the other couples are ! Its annoying!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Possiblehousemate

Is it wrong that something inside me wants revenge!?

I want to meet him once more
kiss him
and then go
you know what
Im suddenly not interested in you
or like
heavily pett
then say that
then just GO
just to sting him
i am childish like that
I watch too many movies
and i want the world to slow down
as i walk away
and my hair to vibrantly bounce
like a wella advert

.. I have been thinking about this all day, I'm just soo angry and it is amplified because it is Valentines day, I don't think i can forgive him? I mean what possible reason could there be for him not to contact message or even txt me, ... He didn't give any hint of this

Today has been terrible,

The best revenge - is to move on! Let him see you neither need him or want him!

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

The best revenge - is to move on! Let him see you neither need him or want him!

This. However get the last work in and then cut the pillock off.

[Possiblehousemate]

I know the best revenge is to move on, and i'm gonna try my hardest not to engage in ANY conversation.

[Possiblehousemate]

Finally got a text and this is what it said:

My head is very confused *****. Im sorrt for not talking tonight on msn but i havent been ignoring you. I don't want you to hate me. X I go to bed now x

[I am confused, did he totally forget about valentines day then, after making plans for it :S ]

[Possiblehousemate]

[My reply]


I don't hate you, obviously you left me confused and wondering if it was me, but im fine and a tough cookie and used to it tbh lol! Your a nice person and i do like you but if your confused at this point it's obviously not going anywhere, and im cool with that and with just being your friend [Thats what they all say :P]. Honestly i wasn't sure what was going on between me and you and you but just through caution to the wind and went with the flow. Being ignored made me think & analyse things slightly and I realise now that me an you don't match. But i hope you find someone cute X chow.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Possiblehousemate

[My reply]


I don't hate you, obviously you left me confused and wondering if it was me, but im fine and a tough cookie and used to it tbh lol! Your a nice person and i do like you but if your confused at this point it's obviously not going anywhere, and im cool with that and with just being your friend [Thats what they all say :P]. Honestly i wasn't sure what was going on between me and you and you but just through caution to the wind and went with the flow. Being ignored made me think & analyse things slightly and I realise now that me an you don't match. But i hope you find someone cute X chow.

For what its worth - I would take out the tough cookie, used to it bit. Might make him think he has licence to mess you about - that you will put up with it! Rest is fine!