[lostalex]

Women want to be her, and men want to be with her. and lesbians want to be with her too. and gay men want her to be their fag hag.

[JTM45]

I think it's the same reason as women usually dislike any physically attractive, intelligent female housemate.............JEALOUSY (sadly!)

Luckily though i think more women each year are starting to support female housemates like Deana because they greatly admire the very same qualities that the sad, bitchy, jealous women are intimidated by!

Lauren did have a few slightly annoying traits but the majority of the ridiculous level of hatred for her and spite towards her within the house stemmed from the insecurities and bitter jealousy of several of the other female housemates.
Ashleigh was the leader of the flock closely followed by Shievonne, Caroline, Becky, Lydia and even "oh so sweet" Sara to a certain degree!

[AnnieK]

What a complete generalisation of all the female members of this forum. It is also very patronising. The majority of posters on here are adults and therefore fully capable of forming opinions based on many factors.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by anniek76

What a complete generalisation of all the female members of this forum. It is also very patronising. The majority of posters on here are adults and therefore fully capable of forming opinions based on many factors.

Well said, spot on. Too many people pidgeon hole others. We all are capable of making our own minds up. My wife dosent like her because she is a trouble maker and way too cocky. My daughter likes her because she is a stand up girl and although she isnt going to spend money voting for her anymore, she still supports her. I dont like her because she is coming accross as a player and not a nice one either. 3 adults, 3 different views, one result, vote Adam.

[HBB1508]

Originally Posted by anniek76

What a complete generalisation of all the female members of this forum. It is also very patronising. The majority of posters on here are adults and therefore fully capable of forming opinions based on many factors.

Well said!!! I find it quite insulting that all women that don't like darling Deana are lumped into the "jealous" category her fans must be getting desperate

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by HBB1508

Well said!!! I find it quite insulting that all women that don't like darling Deana are lumped into the "jealous" category her fans must be getting desperate

If anything, we should be jealous of stunning Sara!

[flamingGalah!]

Being jealous of someone isn't just about looks you know...

[joeysteele]

My Mum and most of my female Cousins, don't like Deana not because of her looks but because she is not to be trusted in their view.

I also find a lot of Women don't like Deana but it's for what she says and does, not how she looks, which in all honesty it cannot be justifiably said she that she is not really nice looking.
It's just a shame her personality is far less nice though.

[Vanessa]

I much prefer Sara. A stunning girl, intelligent, polite and respectful. I wouldn't mind if she won at all!

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I much prefer Sara. A stunning girl, intelligent, polite and respectful. I wouldn't mind if she won at all!

umm... intelligent? wait... what?

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by lostalex

umm... intelligent? wait... what?

I think she is. That's my opinion. But feel free to disagree!

[Niamh.]

I'm a female fan of Deana but I'm going to put that aside in this topic to say, I HATE when people generalise based on sex and also accuse people of not liking a HM because they're jealous of them. Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met? It's ridiculous.

[JTM45]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I'm a female fan of Deana but I'm going to put that aside in this topic to say, I HATE when people generalise based on sex and also accuse people of not liking a HM because they're jealous of them. Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met? It's ridiculous.

I completely agree, it is ridiculous that someone would be jealous of someone they have never even met but in reality it's very common amongst men and women.
In the same way it's ridiculous that anyone could claim to 'hate' someone they don't actually know but some people do get extremely hateful about people they've only seen on TV.

And sadly the generalisation based on sex thing is all too common! Women do it about men, Men do it about women and they always will.
A lot of people do it as a bit of a wind-up, leg-pull type thing (i'll hold my hand up to this one ).

All sad but all realities, whether we like it or not.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by JTM45

I completely agree, it is ridiculous that someone would be jealous of someone they have never even met but in reality it's very common amongst men and women.
In the same way it's ridiculous that anyone could claim to 'hate' someone they don't actually know but some people do get extremely hateful about people they've only seen on TV.

And sadly the generalisation based on sex thing is all too common! Women do it about men, Men do it about women and they always will.
A lot of people do it as a bit of a wind-up, leg-pull type thing (i'll hold my hand up to this one ).

All sad but all realities, whether we like it or not.

I have to disagree with you on this. I really don't believe that anyone who dislikes Deana is jealous of her. Jealous of what? and I'm asking this as a fan of hers. Because she's pretty? most people who disliked her, liked equally pretty girls in there. Because she's had all the men chasing her? Well, she hasn't really. So what exactly are you saying people are jealous of?

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by JTM45

I completely agree, it is ridiculous that someone would be jealous of someone they have never even met but in reality it's very common amongst men and women.
In the same way it's ridiculous that anyone could claim to 'hate' someone they don't actually know but some people do get extremely hateful about people they've only seen on TV.

And sadly the generalisation based on sex thing is all too common! Women do it about men, Men do it about women and they always will.
A lot of people do it as a bit of a wind-up, leg-pull type thing (i'll hold my hand up to this one ).

All sad but all realities, whether we like it or not.

I dont get this post,its all over the place. Firstly you agree with Niamh then you go all out to explain your disagreance. Twaddle in my book.

[Kazanne]

why do people find it so hard to believe that some people are not liked due to their personalities?

[Bojangles]

Originally Posted by kazanne

why do people find it so hard to believe that some people are not liked due to their personalities?

Correct Kazanne.I hardly think anyone hates Deana as hate is a very strong word,and really shouldn't have any place on this forum.

[JTM45]

I didn't mention Deana once in my post. I'm just referring to people in general Niamh. You were asking "Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met?"
People get jealous of people on tv or in the public eye for many reasons Niamh and looks can and often is one of them.
People also get jealous of people's success or the way they carry themselves or how clever they might be. They don't have to know someone to get jealous of them.

I'm not saying it's right or a good way to be but it is a fact that people DO get jealous of people that they know and that they don't know.........fact of life (sadly!).

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by JTM45

I didn't mention Deana once in my post. I'm just referring to people in general Niamh. You were asking "Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met?"
People get jealous of people on tv or in the public eye for many reasons Niamh and looks can and often is one of them.
People also get jealous of people's success or the way they carry themselves or how clever they might be. They don't have to know someone to get jealous of them.

I'm not saying it's right or a good way to be but it is a fact that people DO get jealous of people that they know and that they don't know.........fact of life (sadly!).

Well this thread is about women being jealous of Deana, hence why I'm referring to her......

[JTM45]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well this thread is about women being jealous of Deana, hence why I'm referring to her......

Basically i'm not jealous of Deana, i like her so i don't know why people might be jealous of her but people do get jealous of people they don't even know so it's not impossible that someone might be jealous of Deana for whatever reason.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well this thread is about women being jealous of Deana, hence why I'm referring to her......

I am glad you cleared that up Niamh. Some deana suporters just see the word deana and straight away they jump on that poster and try to be clever or pressure them into going away. On the other side we have posters that spout so much phyco babble that it reads like a jumble of words that mean little.

[JTM45]

Originally Posted by sampvt

I am glad you cleared that up Niamh. Some deana suporters just see the word deana and straight away they jump on that poster and try to be clever or pressure them into going away. On the other side we have posters that spout so much phyco babble that it reads like a jumble of words that mean little.

Niamh is a fellow supporter of Deana Sampvt and we were just having a discussion.

And it's 'psycho' babble by the way!

[Kate!]

I too get annoyed by this generalisation, the majority of housemates I have supported throughout BB have been female, they have all been great, jealousy my arse. The only one I really couldn't stand was Noirin and I can remember other posters at the time saying ah, you don't like her cos she's gorgeous!!! No, I didn't like her cos imo ahe was a player.

Helen Adams, Kate Lawler, Tania do Nascimento, Shell Jubin, Orlaith McAllistair, Aisleyne, Chanelle Hayes, Sophie Reade, Faye and Maisy from last year, Deana and Lauren from the current crop. All female hms I have supported strongly and think they are great people, also happen to be stunners, and highly supported by male fans too. So jealousy, no.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by *Kate*

I too gety annoyed by this generalisation, the majority of housemates I have supported throughout BB have been female, they have all been great, jealousy my arse. The only one I really couldn't stand was Noirin and I can remember other posters at the time saying ah, you don't like her cos she's gorgeous!!! No, I didn't like her cos imo ahe was a player.

Helen Adams, Kate Lawler, Tania do Nascimento, Shell Jubin, Orlaith McAllistair, Aisleyne, Chanelle Hayes, Sophie Reade, Faye and Maisy from last year, Deana and Lauren from the current crop. All female hms I have supported strongly and think they are great people, also happen to be stunners, and highly supported by male fans too. So jealousy, no.

Ahhh yeah..I remember that so well. Every female who disliked her was jealous, every male that disliked her was peed off that she wouldnt want them and they fancied her.

I even made a thread called 'every male who dislikes marcus is jealous of him' to take the piss a bit and show people how ridiculous their argument was. However since then we have still had the 'jealousy' thing thrown about each year

edit. http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...hlight=jealous there. Didnt go down very well at all

[JTM45]

Yeah, it is an accusation that is banded about without substance far too often.