[michael21]

so just to clear thing up and get back on topic ben has step down and taking a time out from the forum because he was in love with Mollie am i right

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by michael21

so just to clear thing up and get back on topic ben has step down and taking a time out from the forum because he was in love with Mollie am i right

Really?

[InOne]

Originally Posted by michael21

the bit that odd to me is how did there contact family members on a diffident note i don't mind if members are male or female i still talk to them but getting more sexy female on the forum would be good

I agree Michael, all these pretty girls turning out to be guys is rubbish

[michael21]

Originally Posted by InOne

I agree Michael, all these pretty girls turning out to be guys is rubbish

will still have sexy Niamh

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Marc

Mollie isn't Mollie, she's/he's some guy called Mike. People were sticking their noses into her alledged life by messaging actual family members of hers and found out she was this guy called Mike.

Pretty creepy if you ask me, on both fronts.

Can't believe people on here would actually contact family members, it's a good damn forum for crying out loud

Don't think that happened

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Black Dagger

Don't think that happened

it did

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

it did

oh ffs. I wasn't told that bit.

[InOne]

Does this mean you'll never be a mod again now? It's kind of annoying people just switch being modded or not whenever they feel like it.

[InOne]

Who were the people that actually went and did that?

[Jake.]

Ah no Ben!

[michael21]

Originally Posted by Ben

Rather than just go and leave the other mods to answer any questions about this, I will no longer be part of the mod team and have de-modded myself from today. I just need to take a breather from this forum as it's getting too much at the moment.


(I was going to post this in Announcements, but I can't access that forum any more, lol)

yea right see you tomorrow ben

[Jack_]

Oh, well good.

I'm torn on the contacting his family issue though. On one hand I get how angry you'd be in Locke's position or for him, but then this is just a forum and contacting someone's family could cause serious emotional and psychological problems for the person behind this in real life. I don't know, I'm indifferent about it right now.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Oh, well good.

I'm torn on the contacting his family issue though. On one hand I get how angry you'd be in Locke's position or for him, but then this is just a forum and contacting someone's family could cause serious emotional and psychological problems for the person behind this in real life. I don't know, I'm indifferent about it right now.

I think it's absolutely wrong tbh. This is a forum and I think if you're going to meet up with someone from here it's probably a good idea to speak to that person on the phone atleast first, if not cam with them. Not saying I don't feel bad for Locke because I do, but I think contacting Mikes family members was completely out of order and crossing a line. (Locke didn't do that as far as I know though, just to be clear)

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I think it's absolutely wrong tbh. This is a forum and I think if you're going to meet up with someone from here it's probably a good idea to speak to that person on the phone atleast first, if not cam with them. Not saying I don't feel bad for Locke because I do, but I think contacting Mikes family members was completely out of order and crossing a line. (Locke didn't do that as far as I know though, just to be clear)

Yeah, you're probably right. Especially about the cam thing now, I don't think people should ever really trust who people say they are unless they've cammed. That doesn't mean you can't like them or they can't be accepted on a forum, I just mean on a deeper level...if it goes further than that.

I am just interested in the motives behind it really, that's all. It'd be great if Mike could give us some kind of an explanation but if his family has been contacted then I can see why he might never want to return again. I don't know, it's a weird one this - I just hope whoever he is he's alright. It's a strange thing to do but there could be serious reasons for it.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I think it's absolutely wrong tbh. This is a forum and I think if you're going to meet up with someone from here it's probably a good idea to speak to that person on the phone atleast first, if not cam with them. Not saying I don't feel bad for Locke because I do, but I think contacting Mikes family members was completely out of order and crossing a line. (Locke didn't do that as far as I know though, just to be clear)

well yes, maybe I'm old fashioned though, no wonder people end up dead in ditches.

[Jordan.]

Why aren't the people who stalked Mollie banned? That's worse than saving someones pictures imo

[Jake.]

The whole thing is just completely messy... but just the fact that this Mike would have Locke pay all of that money to travel down and pay for tickets and stuff..... just beyond heartless.

[Roy Mars III]

Originally Posted by JH95

The whole thing is just completely messy... but just the fact that this Mike would have Locke pay all of that money to travel down and pay for tickets and stuff..... just beyond heartless.

Contacting family is wrong, but I can't really find much sympathy after all this

I just feel bad for Raph, Locke, etc

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

Contacting family is wrong, but I can't really find much sympathy after all this

I just feel bad for Raph, Locke, etc

Exactly... this person built a relationship with people (those two in particular), so to find out that four years of friendship has really been a lie... well, it's crushing

[InOne]

Sexy Niamh has cammed so we know she's real

[Marc]

Real life is detached from the forum and to use social media to reach out to forum member's family is not acceptable, it's low.

[lostalex]

So let me get this straight (no pun intended).... Locke was having a relationship with Mollie, and then he found out that Mollie was actually a guy named Mike, and then Locke contacted Mike's family?

But what does it have to do with Ben? I'm so confused.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

So let me get this straight (no pun intended).... Locke was having a relationship with Mollie, and then he found out that Mollie was actually a guy named Mike, and then Locke contacted Mike's family?

But what does it have to do with Ben? I'm so confused.

Locke wasn't the one who contacted the family members as far as I know

[michael21]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Locke wasn't the one who contacted the family members as far as I know

i suspect it might have been the member who started the thread about Mollie i mean mike i don't no so it complete guess work on my behalf

[Roy Mars III]

I've noticed there are a ton more catfish ever since that movie came out