[Kizzy]

She misinterprets her own rudeness as 'real' and 'honest' opinions, but is so quick to point it out in others.
She turned on the waterworks tonight as she realised she was in the wrong, but instead of being adult and apologising for upsetting lionel she reacted with childish bewilderment.... daft tart.

[Z]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

She misinterprets her own rudeness as 'real' and 'honest' opinions, but is so quick to point it out in others.
She turned on the waterworks tonight as she realised she was in the wrong, but instead of being adult and apologising for upsetting lionel she reacted with childish bewilderment.... daft tart.

Definitely how I see it as well. I'm glad we're getting something else to talk about other than Lee's sleazing, it was getting a bit boring. I think Luisa's going to attract a lot of hatred.

[Kizzy]

She misinterprets her own rudeness as 'real' and 'honest' opinions, but is so quick to point it out in others.
She turned on the waterworks tonight as she realised she was in the wrong, but instead of being adult and apologising for upsetting lionel she reacted with childish bewilderment.... daft tart.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

She misinterprets her own rudeness as 'real' and 'honest' opinions, but is so quick to point it out in others.
She turned on the waterworks tonight as she realised she was in the wrong, but instead of being adult and apologising for upsetting lionel she reacted with childish bewilderment.... daft tart.

Whilst I like honest people who say it how it is....you have to use that honesty when its 'needed' to be said...and a bit of compassion when that honesty has offended someone shows that you care and that its not been said out of malice.

[CaudleHalbard]

Luisa and Dappy seem to be competing for the title of Most Obnoxious Housemate! Lol!

[newsbb]

Lionel needs to ****... end of.

[reece(:]

From watching over the past week I find Lionel to be very hypocritical and do believe Luisa has a little bit of foot in mouth syndrome that she doesn't realise. She's still entertaining me very much so I do not discredit her for it.

[Ammi]

...hmmm, she may have offended Lionel with what she said, although I don't think it was an intent thing but just more thoughtless..but I thought the way that it was all brought up in a group thing was really wrong as well...they felt disrespected and yet they acted a bit like a 'pack' against her...

[Z]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...hmmm, she may have offended Lionel with what she said, although I don't think it was an intent thing but just more thoughtless..but I thought the way that it was all brought up in a group thing was really wrong as well...they felt disrespected and yet they acted a bit like a 'pack' against her...

I saw it as more of an intervention. She was rude and she got the same level of rudeness back, but it came along with people trying to explain to her why she was being perceived in a way that she didn't intend and her response was to burst into tears and not accept that she had been offensive. Agree with Livia and GiRTh.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Zee

I saw it as more of an intervention. She was rude and she got the same level of rudeness back, but it came along with people trying to explain to her why she was being perceived in a way that she didn't intend and her response was to burst into tears and not accept that she had been offensive. Agree with Livia and GiRTh.

...yeah, I do understand that she was probably offensive..(although I didn't hear exactly what she said..)..but I still think that Lionel could have spoken to her privately about it but instead they were all 'talking at her' at the table and I think that Linda maybe sensed her discomfort and that's why she backed off a bit and said that she could understand what Luisa was trying to say..?...imo, they did 'pack up' on her and that really wasn't very good...


..and it's not that I particularly like Luisa, but I still think that was why she cried and felt 'ganged up on..'....

[Jemal]

If dappy said that, this forum - london riots would have nothing on it.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Jemal

If dappy said that, this forum - london riots would have nothing on it.

That it a very good point, because it is Luisa it is "honest", if it had been Dappy he would have been "a tool". She has voiced that opinion before to Jasmine so I think she knew what she was doing and being a little bit spiteful. It may not be an Old Peoples Home, but neither is it a Youth Hostel.

[Brother Leon]

Originally Posted by Jemal

If dappy said that, this forum - london riots would have nothing on it.

Don't be dumb fam. It's "telling it like it is" or "being fierce"...if that fails then it's a misunderstanding

[Samm]

Luisa >>>>>>

[Jake.]

Where I have a similar sense of humor (dry/sarcasm etc) I see where she's coming from and I also see how it can offend. One of my managers at work (who I really get on with, more like good friends) said to me around 5 months after I joined that she hated me due to me coming across as rude, and it took me a while to explain that it was just my sense of humor. I ended up really calming down with it, especially at work, so that she'd like me again lol.

[flamingGalah!]

Luisa is a nasty, two faced, bitchy, trollop... I'd actually rather have had the homophobic, animal abusing ex boxer stay over her...

[Black Dagger]

"****ing rude cow" pmsl.

[Kazanne]

I haven't much time for people who dismiss the older generation ,afterall we will all get there one day IF we are lucky,the world does not revolve around youngsters,I think Lionel is doing really well amongst some of those ignoramuses ,I'de have walked out ages ago.

[Livia]

Say something rude an offensive, then lay the blame at the feet of others because they don't "get" her sense of humour. Luisa is tactless and ignorant and one of my least favourites in the house.

[Gusto Brunt]

Luisa is a stupid, immature ignorant cow, who thinks it's an achievement in life to have multiple sex on a dirty carpet in someone seedy bedsit, and she has the cheek to insult lovely Lionel.

Utter disgrace.

[Lindsey b]

I like Luisa, I understand that it's her sense of humor! If people don't get it they will be offended! Now that she knows it is offending people she can try & rectify it & think before she speaks! Every1 is guilty of being bitchy in some way! Lionel is always bitching & putting Jim down! (Jealousy/competitive) Linda about Jim! Lee about Casey etc!

[MarcusMel]

It nice to know that the people posting are intentionally being offensive!

[wendywillow]

Luisa and Dappy seem to be competing for the title of Most Obnoxious Housemate! Lol!



dappys to lose (imo) the playing to the cameras is not fun to watch

[GiRTh]

I dont agree Ammi. Sorry. I think Luisa has quite a bit of bravado hence the 'its my personality' stance and the others should just accept it. She could have accepted what they said took it on board and they would have all moved on but no you must accept the way she is - 'its just the way I am,'. When they didnt accept the way she was then came the water works. I dont think they ganged up on her at all. She had an easy out from that conversation but she didnt take it and I think it was very manipulative of her and another unpleasant trait of hers to turn on the water works.

I dont like her very much. You might have noticed.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

I dont agree Ammi. Sorry. I think Luisa has quite a bit of bravado hence the 'its my personality' stance and the others should just accept it. She could have accepted what they said took it on board and they would have all moved on but no you must accept the way she is - 'its just the way I am,'. When they didnt accept the way she was then came the water works. I dont think they ganged up on her at all. She had an easy out from that conversation but she didnt take it and I think it was very manipulative of her and another unpleasant trait of hers to turn on the water works.

I dont like her very much. You might have noticed.

..no, you've hidden it well but tbh.....I'm not a huge fan of Luisa myself and find she's been quite manipulative in a few things and although she probably was rude about 'OAPs'..for me that doesn't detract from the fact that she did appear 'talked at' by several people and that couldn't have been pleasant at all and would probably bring someone to tears...I just don't think they were very good in how they handled it...