[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care

You can send us a video link on zoom or Skype or something .

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care

…you didn’t realise that Noky had invited us, then…(…all expenses paid …)…y’all really need to get some wedding communication going…

[Father Chris Mouse]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…you didn’t realise that Noky had invited us, then…(…all expenses paid …)…y’all really need to get some wedding communication going…

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care

[vesavius]

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

…absolutely, we love a gal who aims for her all deserving dreams……

[Ammi]

…when two become one at their Swanki wedding……

[Father Chris Mouse]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…when two become one at their Swanki wedding……

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

You do know how a wedding works?

like who invites people - no one just turns up?

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

You do know how a wedding works?

like who invites people - no one just turns up?

Some people might try and crash the wedding .

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

You do know how a wedding works?

like who invites people - no one just turns up?

Well, I know them well enough to know that there is a difference between who you feel obliged to invite and who you want to really invite.

It's good to have a filter. It also gives those who don't really care that much about it all a good excuse to not attend. Only those that really want to will be there.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

But surely she knows her friends well enough that she can just choose not to invite casual hangers on!!?
If you follow this argument, it would seem to say more about the quality of her friendships. Or maybe she’s one of those people who have 800 Facebook ‘friends’, the majority of whom she has never met.
Either way, it comes across as shallow, especially when put alongside other evidence.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Garfie

But surely she knows her friends well enough that she can just choose not to invite casual hangers on!!?
If you follow this argument, it would seem to say more about the quality of her friendships. Or maybe she’s one of those people who have 800 Facebook ‘friends’, the majority of whom she has never met.
Either way, it comes across as shallow, especially when put alongside other evidence.

As I said before, there is often a huge difference between who you want to invite and who you feel obliged to invite.

She probably has quite a wide circle of friends and her work probably heavily bleeds into that.

You think it is 'shallow', I choose not to.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by vesavius

As I said before, there is often a huge difference between who you want to invite and who you feel obliged to invite.

She probably has quite a wide circle of friends and her work probably heavily bleeds into that.

You think it is 'shallow', I choose not to.

I respect your point of view as it’s all a matter of perception at the end of the day.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I respect your point of view as it’s all a matter of perception at the end of the day.

Exactly!

[smudgie]

Some girls dream of the big wedding, Prince Charming and all that.
Others couldn’t give a fig. Each to their own.
I was married on a Monday, register office, just to make our living together legal for the kids.
We were just going to grab a couple of witnesses but family had other ideas, we kept it as low key as we could though.
But I fully understand the need for the big white wedding for some girls.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Some girls dream of the big wedding, Prince Charming and all that.
Others couldn’t give a fig. Each to their own.
I was married on a Monday, register office, just to make our living together legal for the kids.
We were just going to grab a couple of witnesses but family had other ideas, we kept it as low key as we could though.
But I fully understand the need for the big white wedding for some girls.

Again though that's not the issue here at all, the issue was that Noky said her reasoning for having it abroad on a Wednesday (basically bang slap in the middle of the week so most people would need to take a whole week off work as it's abroad) would be to see who'd do all that to go to her wedding. I don't know about anyone else but I've never met a girl who when "dreaming about their wedding day" wanted a day that would inconvience people the most

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Again though that's not the issue here at all, the issue was that Noky said her reasoning for having it abroad on a Wednesday (basically bang slap in the middle of the week so most people would need to take a whole week off work as it's abroad) would be to see who'd do all that to go to her wedding. I don't know about anyone else but I've never met a girl who when "dreaming about their wedding day" wanted a day that would inconvience people the most

Aah, I get your drift.
But hopefully she gets the wedding of her dreams……or nightmare if nobody turns up

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Aah, I get your drift.
But hopefully she gets the wedding of her dreams……or nightmare if nobody turns up

It's what she deserves

[Atake25]

Honestly it’s hard to judge from a 10 second conversation and no context , she might not have even been talking about her own imaginary wedding

[thesheriff443]

Lt has got a lot of time on his hands today!

Lt your not a wedding planner

Carrying on like your the one paying for her wedding

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Lt has got a lot of time on his hands today!

Lt your not a wedding planner

Carrying on like your the one paying for her wedding

I will post this reply in the

"why do you care what happened last night in Big Brother despite being on a forum about Big Brother where people come to post their views about Big Brother" folder

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I will post this reply in the

"why do you care what happened last night in Big Brother despite being on a forum about Big Brother where people come to post their views about Big Brother" folder

You hit the nail on the head with care

The vast majority can give an opinion and leave it at that

You are like a broken record digging and digging, for what!, some thing that’s none of your concern

[Abra]

It's not selfish at all to have your own wedding where and when you want it. What would be selfish would be to expect someone to change their own wedding plans to suit you. If you can't go, wish them the best and stay home.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Abra

It's not selfish at all to have your own wedding where and when you want it. .

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