[Swan]

Weddings aren't like Christmas, Easter etc. Weddings are usually family events, but what a wedding is really about is 2 people in love, committing to spending the rest of their lives together. It's their business where they get married. Can't afford it, cba to go abroad for it, think it's a load of rubbish, that's fine, don't go. It's the bride and grooms day, not the families.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Swan

Weddings aren't like Christmas, Easter etc. Weddings are usually family events, but what a wedding is really about is 2 people in love, committing to spending the rest of their lives together. It's their business where they get married. Can't afford it, cba to go abroad for it, think it's a load of rubbish, that's fine, don't go. It's the bride and grooms day, not the families.

Absolutely but that's not what she said. The way she phrased it was she was going to have it abroad on a Wednesday as a test to see who loved her enough to go

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Swan

Weddings aren't like Christmas, Easter etc. Weddings are usually family events, but what a wedding is really about is 2 people in love, committing to spending the rest of their lives together. It's their business where they get married. Can't afford it, cba to go abroad for it, think it's a load of rubbish, that's fine, don't go. It's the bride and grooms day, not the families.

True

I use to get annoyed with the TV show Don't Tell The Bride ,the groom's seemed to always upset their brides to be .

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Ammi your friends are cheapskates ... just joking .

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's understandable when you think how ridiculously expensive the average wedding is . Sky is the limit from anywhere from 10k -upwards . So I don't blame couples looking for cheaper options & bargains.

I also can see their point of view,when some of them just opt for a quiet get together, rather than a big stressful event.

….so really GH…what we’re saying in conclusion, then…?…is that my friends are sadly struggling so much with their wedding finances…that I need to start a go fund them page to give them the weekend wedding of their dreams…?…

…yeah, weddings overseas might help in keeping the guest list smaller and erase some stress and anxieties attached to affordable guest lists…

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Absolutely but that's not what she said. The way she phrased it was she was going to have it abroad on a Wednesday as a test to see who loved her enough to go

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

True

I use to get annoyed with the TV show Don't Tell The Bride ,the groom's seemed to always upset their brides to be .

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Ammi

….so really GH…what we’re saying in conclusion, then…?…is that my friends are sadly struggling so much with their wedding finances…that I need to start a go fund them page to give them the weekend wedding of their dreams…?…

…yeah, weddings overseas might help in keeping the guest list smaller and erase some stress and anxieties attached to affordable guest lists…

Maybe they just prefer the weekday option lol .

Financial aside ,some people even prefer to elope and they only have like 4 guests/ witnesses ...as they can't be bothered with sending out invites etc.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Absolutely but that's not what she said. The way she phrased it was she was going to have it abroad on a Wednesday as a test to see who loved her enough to go

it showed her up for the selfish shallow person she is

As Yinrun says "i dont want to hear about you winning some minor beauty pagent i want to know about you"

Sadly Noky does not understand

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care

You can send us a video link on zoom or Skype or something .

[vesavius]

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

it showed her up for the selfish shallow person she is

As Yinrun says "i dont want to hear about you winning some minor beauty pagent i want to know about you"

Sadly Noky does not understand

Maybe if people told Noky ...then she'd open up more ,I think she's a bit guarded.

On the first live feed she was talking for ages about life & relationships.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care

…you didn’t realise that Noky had invited us, then…(…all expenses paid …)…y’all really need to get some wedding communication going…

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…you didn’t realise that Noky had invited us, then…(…all expenses paid …)…y’all really need to get some wedding communication going…

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

…absolutely, we love a gal who aims for her all deserving dreams……

[smudgie]

Some girls dream of the big wedding, Prince Charming and all that.
Others couldn’t give a fig. Each to their own.
I was married on a Monday, register office, just to make our living together legal for the kids.
We were just going to grab a couple of witnesses but family had other ideas, we kept it as low key as we could though.
But I fully understand the need for the big white wedding for some girls.

[Ammi]

…when two become one at their Swanki wedding……

[Atake25]

Honestly it’s hard to judge from a 10 second conversation and no context , she might not have even been talking about her own imaginary wedding

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

You do know how a wedding works?

like who invites people - no one just turns up?

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…when two become one at their Swanki wedding……

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

You do know how a wedding works?

like who invites people - no one just turns up?

Some people might try and crash the wedding .

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

it showed her up for the selfish shallow person she is

As Yinrun says "i dont want to hear about you winning some minor beauty pagent i want to know about you"

Sadly Noky does not understand

Yinrun's nomination reasons were the best

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

Yinrun's nomination reasons were the best

…Yinrun’s everything is the best……

[thesheriff443]

Lt has got a lot of time on his hands today!

Lt your not a wedding planner

Carrying on like your the one paying for her wedding

[GoldHeart]

I hope Noky separates herself from Olivia.... it's not having a good influence. Hope she spends more time with Trish & Yinrun and forms a bond .That would be nice to see.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Lt has got a lot of time on his hands today!

Lt your not a wedding planner

Carrying on like your the one paying for her wedding

I will post this reply in the

"why do you care what happened last night in Big Brother despite being on a forum about Big Brother where people come to post their views about Big Brother" folder

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I will post this reply in the

"why do you care what happened last night in Big Brother despite being on a forum about Big Brother where people come to post their views about Big Brother" folder

You hit the nail on the head with care

The vast majority can give an opinion and leave it at that

You are like a broken record digging and digging, for what!, some thing that’s none of your concern