[Yayita]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

The whole world doesn't have to stop talking about food because 'sensitive' Becks doesn't like it. Although having said that with hindsight having watched the video a few times, Deana should've have kept her opinion to herself imo.

When you live with people, you have an idea of what you can talk about and how to approach it. I felt Deana was civil about it and Becky was not upset.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Right so you are not happy with your weight, would you like someone to lecture you endlessly about it? I sure as hell wouldnt ,its nothing to do with Deana ,Becky is an adult IF and WHEN she decides to do something about it is her choice as its your to do something if you want to

Deana hasn't lectured her endlessly about it though. If she had I'd agree with you but this is the first time AFAIK

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Scott

shes so fat though omg

like seriously when she was on the bed last night i was thinking i bet one of her thighs is thicker than my waist and i am hella fat so what does that make her

kill it with fire

why

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by Yayita

When you live with people, you have an idea of what you can talk about and how to approach it. I felt Deana was civil about it and Becky was not upset.

Deana can be a bit insensitive on occasion, but she has every right to talk about food and calories with whoever she sees fit imo

[arista]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

http://www.facebook.com/BigBrotherUK...ewing-the-fat/ Miss Perfect constantly attacking Becky about her weight? Who the hell does she think she is? I wish Becky had tipped the bowl over her arrogant head

No Deana is Fit
thats a bonus

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by arista

No Deana is Fit
thats a bonus

but give no right to say that to becky

[WCR1942]

Like all males on here I should be disqualified from commenting on this issue.
I learned many years ago that women's attitude to weight is unfathomable to males.
I once worked in a place where each lunch hour a group of about a dozen women sat round a table to eat. They were a mixture of very thin, average and well over-weight.
The conversation frequently turned to diets during which thin ones would bemoan their weight in a way which seemed to me incredibly insensitive to the fat ones.
The latter came back each day for more and never raised any objections. Furthermore they joined in as though the thin ones' comments made any sort of sense.

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by Scott

shes so fat though omg

like seriously when she was on the bed last night i was thinking i bet one of her thighs is thicker than my waist and i am hella fat so what does that make her

kill it with fire

Yeah, Pretty gross... Her gut was moving like water waves.. she is so full of fat and water. I think its gross the way she jiggles when she walks.

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by Yayita

Ellen, there is no way Becky is happy with herself the way she is.. I am overweight myself and that is a defense mechanism. Make fun of yourself before anyone else does, pretend to be happy. That is BULLCRAP.

No fat, obese person is happy with their physical self... She may love her personality and other aspects of her life but trust me.. There is no way you can be that obese and feel completely happy with your body. It is awefull being overweight!

I think its a good thing that Deana is telling her to watch her calories, it is healthier Becky should appreciate it. I know I do when people tell me to watch out for certain foods.

That might be the case with some people but there are overweight people that are happy with themselves, its other projecting their dislike of overweight people that makes them feel bad.
Deana was not telling her to watch her calories, she was trying to make Becky feel bad about what she was eating which i think is just wrong. Trying to belittle someone into not eating something is not nice.

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Yayita

Yeah, Pretty gross... Her gut was moving like water waves.. she is so full of fat and water. I think its gross the way she jiggles when she walks.

well that what you think i like her like that
eg my sig

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by bigbrother12

well that what you think i like her like that
eg my sig

Listen, you can like Becky as she is, but you cant deny FAT is NOT cute and is NOT healthy. If you say otherwise, you are doing yourself and others in that situation a diservice.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by Ellen

That might be the case with some people but there are overweight people that are happy with themselves, its other projecting their dislike of overweight people that makes them feel bad.
Deana was not telling her to watch her calories, she was trying to make Becky feel bad about what she was eating which i think is just wrong. Trying to belittle someone into not eating something is not nice.

I agree in part, overweight people can be happy with themselves, but I don't know how you can be so sure of Deana intentions. It could be interpreted in many different ways seems to me.

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by Ellen

That might be the case with some people but there are overweight people that are happy with themselves, its other projecting their dislike of overweight people that makes them feel bad.
Deana was not telling her to watch her calories, she was trying to make Becky feel bad about what she was eating which i think is just wrong. Trying to belittle someone into not eating something is not nice.

Belittle, did we watch the same video? I saw it as a civil conversation between them and Deana even congratulated her on being happy even though she looks like a Balooga whale

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Yayita

Listen, you can like Becky as she is, but you cant deny FAT is NOT cute and is NOT healthy. If you say otherwise, you are doing yourself and others in that situation a diservice.

well she like her self as that if she did not she would done somting about it and fat is cute i like to hold some while cuddling

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

I agree in part, overweight people can be happy with themselves, but I don't know how you can be so sure of Deana intentions. It could be interpreted in many different ways seems to me.

No way you can be fat and happy.. Dude, its awefull wondering if youll fit into a chair in a cafe or if the seatbelt will buckle on an air plain...etc etc.. I can give you tons of examples.... not fun!

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by bigbrother12

well she like her self as that if she did not she would done somting about it and fat is cute i like to hold some while cuddling

LOL, some yes, but not TONS!!

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Yayita

LOL, some yes, but not TONS!!

but some people do

[Indy]

Becky has serious food addiction - there is NO right answer when it comes to dealing with her. She's nominated and complained about people (not just Deana) for making comments about feeling fat. She nominated Lydia for complaining about custard being hard to swallow, when she herself would've LOVED to guzzle down a jar full of custard in 20 seconds. Everyone in that house could walk on eggshells around her 24/7, and she'd still find ways to bitch. Very likely she has a running inventory of everything in that kitchen in her head at all times, and she's also probably aware of everything everyone else takes out of it (or in her mind, how much of her food everyone else is eating). That's obvious going back to the start when she was hiding beer down her pants.

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Indy

Becky has serious food addiction - there is NO right answer when it comes to dealing with her. She's nominated and complained about people (not just Deana) for making comments about feeling fat. She nominated Lydia for complaining about custard being hard to swallow, when she herself would've LOVED to guzzle down a jar full of custard in 20 seconds. Everyone in that house could walk on eggshells around her 24/7, and she'd still find ways to bitch. Very likely she has a running inventory of everything in that kitchen in her head at all times, and she's also probably aware of everything everyone else takes out of it (or in her mind, how much of her food everyone else is eating). That's obvious going back to the start when she was hiding beer down her pants.

why

[smeagol]

becky is the complete opposite to what she said she was,

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by smeagol

becky is the complete opposite to what she said she was,

angain what did she say

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

But does that give Deana the right to attack her for eating?Deana never saw her video so doesnt know if Becky is sensitive about it

It was hardly attacking her Chuff, it was a little insensitive, granted but attacking? come on!

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It was hardly attacking her Chuff, it was a little insensitive, granted but attacking? come on!

i whith chuff on this

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by bigbrother12

i whith chuff on this

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

why looking that that