[Iceman]

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[Z]

LOL Eoin! No don't do what Eoin said!!!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Conzors

I don't think i am using him because i have tried to have the conversation.
Using him would be to not have the conversation about anything.

I didnt not dump him then because of the tickets, i didnt because he bought them and i would of felt bad doing it when he bought me tickets!

..I know that you're just trying to be kind and sensitive to his feelings, Connor, but the thing is by accepting all of his gifts, without meaning to, it can kind of make it much worse for him...he could either read things into your acceptance of them and find it harder to accept that you don't feel the same or it can bring bitterness and resentment into it because of the money he's spent..I know that none of that is your fault and there is nothing you can do about it but what you can do is be honest with him and refuse his gifts/treats etc because that is one thing that is within your control and I do think it's the kinder thing to do in the end....

[lostalex]

Have you tried just being a nasty prick so that he'll break up with you? That way he'll think it was his decision and he'll be less hurt. It's always worked for me.

[Cherie]

Conor I would be inclined to say you have had a think and you would like to keep things between you at a more friendly level, insist on paying for the HP ticket if you still want to go, and if you don't tell him to take someone else.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Conor I would be inclined to say you have had a think and you would like to keep things between you at a more friendly level, insist on paying for the HP ticket if you still want to go, and if you don't tell him to take someone else.

That's actually a great idea. Pay him for the ticket, and then make it clear you guys are going just as friends. And also bring a friend with you and tell him he should bring a friend too. that way he will be clear that you are just friends, and you'll have your own friend there as a buffer zone.

[anne666]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Conor I would be inclined to say you have had a think and you would like to keep things between you at a more friendly level, insist on paying for the HP ticket if you still want to go, and if you don't tell him to take someone else.

Great idea. Takes the "buying" of the relationship out of it too, but I do think you need to end it and soon.

[mizzy25]

After the Harry Potter thing, you could lie and say u r moving abroad or something. This thread is reminding me of an episode of friends where Chandler is trying to break up with Janice and says hes going to some bizarre foreigh country with work I cant remember where anyhow he ends up actually getting on the aeroplane as Janice wont leave him in the airport lol

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by mizzy25

After the Harry Potter thing, you could lie and say u r moving abroad or something. This thread is reminding me of an episode of friends where Chandler is trying to break up with Janice and says hes going to some bizarre foreigh country with work I cant remember where anyhow he ends up actually getting on the aeroplane as Janice wont leave him in the airport lol

Yemen....

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by mizzy25

After the Harry Potter thing, you could lie and say u r moving abroad or something. This thread is reminding me of an episode of friends where Chandler is trying to break up with Janice and says hes going to some bizarre foreigh country with work I cant remember where anyhow he ends up actually getting on the aeroplane as Janice wont leave him in the airport lol

Mizzy

[mizzy25]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Yemen....

yes that's it thanks lol anyway conor tell him your going to yemen to work lol

[Glenn.]

Enjoy Harry Potter

[Ammi]

..Mizzy, you little heartbreaker..all of those poor guys who have dashed to the airport to declare their undying love and you weren't even there......

[anne666]

Are we allowed an update?