[Redway]

A basic fact of life is that you’re just going to have to cross paths with people you dislike very much from time to time but how strong can the actual feeling of hatred go in your case? Do you try and appreciate the supposed good in everyone or are you really not trying to suffer any fools?

[UserSince2005]

ive not murdered anyone yet

[Crimson Dynamo]

"A basic fact of life is that you’re just going to have to cross paths with people you dislike very much"

nope

[Beso]

4th one down, but there doesnt have to be a good reason.

[Alf]

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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Alf

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I’ve been involved in enough nonsense over the past 16 years to have reached that point but generally I give people a chance. I’m a people-person at heart so I can’t let cynicism from bad past experiences get in the way of maintaining/making connections. But the general public can be annoying.

[Kate!]

Someone has to do something REALLY bad for me to purely hate them, there have been a few.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Kate!

Someone has to do something REALLY bad for me to purely hate them, there have been a few.

Ditto. I like to draw a line under things where I can but there are certain things that I’ll probably never, ever forgive certain people for and I really don’t feel bad about feeling that way. People who continue to disrespect you in the most indefensible ways aren’t automatically entitled to your niceness or forgiveness.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Redway

Ditto. I like to draw a line under things where I can but there are certain things that I’ll probably never, ever forgive certain people for.

Same , not many but i never wish to see or hear from them ever again.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Same , not many but i never wish to see or hear from them ever again.

Yup. The last people I added to my hate list were from 2021 and nothing’s changed in those two years. I wouldn’t piss on them if they were rotting in hell fire. Definitely don’t want to see any of those idiots again.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Redway

Yup. The last people I added to my hate list were from 2021 and nothing’s changed in those two years. I wouldn’t piss on them if they were rotting in hell fire. Definitely don’t want to see any of those idiots again.

Yes be true to who you are , some people are so out for themselves and their narrative they'll throw friends or family under the bus.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Same , not many but i never wish to see or hear from them ever again.

Are you comfortable talking about what they did?

[Oliver_W]

I'm waaay too chill and meditate too much to hold onto hate I don't give such things the headspace.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

I'm waaay too chill and meditate too much to hold onto hate I don't give such things the headspace.

I’m extremely chill ordinarily but when it comes to having a valid reason to hate someone I’m one of those people who just doesn’t let it go.

[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by Redway

I’m extremely chill ordinarily but when it comes to having a valid reason to hate someone I’m one of those people who just doesn’t let it go.

One might be inclined to ask you if you believe that's a productive use of your headspace?

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

One might be inclined to ask you if you believe that's a productive use of your headspace?

Plenty of other things, no doubt, but when someone crosses the line it’s just another thing that sticks. If you’re the sort of person who just moves on and kicks people like that out of your head completely, more power to you.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

One might be inclined to ask you if you believe that's a productive use of your headspace?

Outbursts of irrationsl hatred when exploded into a pillow costs you thousands in la, for an hour long session.

It must help the mind and soul.

[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by Redway

Plenty of other things, no doubt, but when someone crosses the line it’s just another thing that sticks. If you’re the sort of person who just moves on and kicks people like that out of your head completely, more power to you.

I tend to confront people who I feel have wronged me, but maybe I'm lucky in that I've not been on the receiving end of anything that bad (yet), so it could be argued I've not had to opportunity to really seethe.

[Beso]

As long as you ain't hurting anyone else, violent outbursts of hatred are as good as an outburst of crying.

Infact they are better cause nobody is gonna slap your face and tell you to pull yourself together.

[Redway]

No, we ain’t hurting nobody. Just drawing the line when enough’s enough.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Redway

No, we ain’t hurting nobody. Just drawing the line when enough’s enough.

Do you know the people you hate?

Just asking cause the people I hate the mostly dont have names.

To explain that, and to be open as **** to strangers.(it helps for some strange reason)

When my son died in 2012 at a young age, A website called stupid deaths feautered his death because it made the national papers in scotland

My morbidness made me look, and well..you can imagine the hatred I've felt ever since.


He died taking legal highs, but the papers picked up on it because his twitter feed was him bragging about going out on that fateful night to take them.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Do you know the people you hate?

Just asking cause the people I hate the mostly dont have names.

To explain that, and to be open as **** to strangers.(it helps for some strange reason)

When my son died in 2012 at a young age, A website called stupid deaths feautered his death because it made the national papers in scotland

My morbidness made me look, and well..you can imagine the hatred I've felt ever since.


He died taking legal highs, but the papers picked up on it because his twitter feed was him bragging about going out on that fateful night to take them.

That sounds like such a rough ordeal (involving your son). Is there anything you do to help you when the grief and resentment hits (drinking whiskey doesn’t count, let’s be honest)?

But in my case they have names, yeah. I know exactly who they are.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Redway

That sounds like such a rough ordeal (involving your son). Is there anything you do to help you when the grief and resentment hits (drinking whiskey doesn’t count, let’s be honest)?

But in my case they have names, yeah. I know exactly who they are.

Let's just say I cant swing a punch like I used to, so my face isn't as handsome as it once was.

But that was in the past, things are improving now. Om lucky I've never had a very close friend that I've ended up hating, they've all been really cool.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Redway

No, we ain’t hurting nobody. Just drawing the line when enough’s enough.

Although sometimes the lines can be blurred between you shutting the door on toxic people after one incident too many and it seeming like you just want to keep punishing them, and sometimes the latter’s what you actually want to do and probably would if you had less chill. Life always goes on and you just attend to the gazillion-and-one more important things you have going on in your life but there are some things/wounds you never really get over. Especially when you see the people you hate having fun and having a good life you feel like they don’t deserve.

[Glenn.]

Don’t have time for hatred. If someone pisses me off to the point that I ‘hate’ them I don’t bother with them. No point wasting time on them.