[Redway]

Originally Posted by Kate!

Someone has to do something REALLY bad for me to purely hate them, there have been a few.

Ditto. I like to draw a line under things where I can but there are certain things that I’ll probably never, ever forgive certain people for and I really don’t feel bad about feeling that way. People who continue to disrespect you in the most indefensible ways aren’t automatically entitled to your niceness or forgiveness.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Redway

Ditto. I like to draw a line under things where I can but there are certain things that I’ll probably never, ever forgive certain people for.

Same , not many but i never wish to see or hear from them ever again.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Same , not many but i never wish to see or hear from them ever again.

Yup. The last people I added to my hate list were from 2021 and nothing’s changed in those two years. I wouldn’t piss on them if they were rotting in hell fire. Definitely don’t want to see any of those idiots again.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Redway

Yup. The last people I added to my hate list were from 2021 and nothing’s changed in those two years. I wouldn’t piss on them if they were rotting in hell fire. Definitely don’t want to see any of those idiots again.

Yes be true to who you are , some people are so out for themselves and their narrative they'll throw friends or family under the bus.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Yes be true to who you are , some people are so out for themselves and their narrative they'll throw friends or family under the bus.

And they’ll wonder why you keep giving them the cold shoulder every time you are misfortuned to see them, as if they don’t know what they did. It’s better when these things stay low-key though because if it becomes a big talking point you’ll be painted as the bully and the bad guy. They’re rarely capable of telling the full story and the foulness of what they did to and said about you. The people around them who know them (or at least think they do) but don’t know you (or maybe, maybe not, they know you a little bit but never really liked you) will be more inclined to go with their side of the story (because they just don’t know you) but I do believe that karma deals with those people when the time’s right.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Redway

And they’ll wonder why you keep giving them the cold shoulder every time you are misfortuned to see them, as if they don’t know what they did. It’s better when these things stay low-key though because if it becomes a big talking point you’ll be painted as the bully and the bad guy. They’re rarely capable of telling the full story and the foulness of what they did to and said about you. The people around them who know them (or at least think they do) but don’t know you (or maybe they know you a little bit but never really liked you) will be more inclined to go with their side of the story (because they just don’t know you) but I do believe that karma deals with those people when the time’s right.

Oh yes Karma always gets them eventually

[Redway]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Oh yes Karma always gets them eventually

Hopefully. The battle’s ultimately the Lord’s so sometimes you’ve just got to trust that God will deal with them mercilessly (and I mean mercilessly) when the time comes.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Oh yes Karma always gets them eventually

I hope so..

A nemesis of mine from the early 80s was diagnosed throat cancer, he was given 3 months to live...8 bloody months ago.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Same , not many but i never wish to see or hear from them ever again.

Are you comfortable talking about what they did?