[glibberglobber]

Originally Posted by Matthew.

erm people do not choose to be LGBT!

But they do... If I liked the same gender I would CHOOSE to become L(G)BT...

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

But they do... If I liked the same gender I would CHOOSE to become L(G)BT...

no. you are born lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender.

you don’t wake up one morning and decide that you quite like the idea of being one and decide from there on out, you will be one.

[glibberglobber]

Originally Posted by Matthew.

no. you are born lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender.

you don’t wake up one morning and decide that you quite like the idea of being one and decide from there on out, you will be one.

And if a boy went out with a girl and said 'sorry.. I cannot do this anymore. I'm gay' and dumped her (and got with another boy) what would you call that?

I personally know someone who went from Lesbian to Bisexual

You aren't born with a nametag saying 'im gay'

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

And if a boy went out with a girl and said 'sorry.. I cannot do this anymore. I'm gay' and dumped her (and got with another boy) what would you call that?

I personally know someone who went from Lesbian to Bisexual

You aren't born with a nametag saying 'im gay'

i just want to make this point before this threads is inevitably locked.

in your scenario above, the boy had always been gay but just hadn’t realised or had tried to cover it up.

this is like courtney act explaining things to ann widdecombe

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

And if a boy went out with a girl and said 'sorry.. I cannot do this anymore. I'm gay' and dumped her (and got with another boy) what would you call that?

I personally know someone who went from Lesbian to Bisexual

You aren't born with a nametag saying 'im gay'

I think it's more complex than that .

That example you used of a guy dating a girl and then dumping her , it DOES happen in real life and i think it's either confusion or again he's not a specific label of "GAY" and he might still fancy women .

[Withano]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

And if a boy went out with a girl and said 'sorry.. I cannot do this anymore. I'm gay' and dumped her (and got with another boy) what would you call that?

I personally know someone who went from Lesbian to Bisexual

You aren't born with a nametag saying 'im gay'

I’ll be honest, you’ve got a bit of catching up to do.. people havent thought like you in about 30 years really.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

But they do... If I liked the same gender I would CHOOSE to become L(G)BT...

Did you actively make a choice to not like the same gender?

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by Withano

Did you actively make a choice to not like the same gender?

I don't think that's what globber meant

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

But they do... If I liked the same gender I would CHOOSE to become L(G)BT...

Suppose it depends which way you look at it , not everyone from that community are interested in parades and pride month so i can understand that side of it .

Also not everyone is open about their sexuality and they don't like labels which is what these parades seem to go on about , maybe some people don't want to be defined by their sexual preference .

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

But they do... If I liked the same gender I would CHOOSE to become L(G)BT...

Jesus wept!
You embarrass yourself showing such ignorance

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by glibberglobber

But they do... If I liked the same gender I would CHOOSE to become L(G)BT...

Completely wrong.

You can't choose which gender you are attracted to. A straight person can't make themselves attracted to the same sex any more then a gay person can be attracted to the opposite.

Sexuality is not a choice, delusion is and by pretending that it is a choice you are pushing the idea that people she delude themselves into being something they are not and that's just sweeping the issue under the table.