[Babayaro.]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Is this an Avril Lavigne song

[Ammi]

....awww Parmy...dear, dear Parmy...you’re just a huge heart.........it’s so lovely that you have excellent friends on TiBB, people you like to talk to and read their posts etc...people you love to be around..?...that’s the thing with TiBB isn’t it...what makes it so special, so unique...the lovely people here that we all feel...and maybe TiBB is a little bit of a crutch for you...or maybe quite a big crutch even...and that’s a valued thing as well, so very important..but TiBB isn’t something, a place that fixes things in way those things might need to be fixed...it can only ever play a very small part in that if that’s something that someone needs, you know...because that would be too much responsibility put on it, it just wouldn’t be fair either...you praise Josy and Dezzy in particular for their moderation values on TiBB..?...and I completely agree with you, they’re just stunning in their value on the forum...as are the other moderators...for giving their time and their energy to create the forum this is...even on those days that are particularly frustrating for them...those pulling their hair out days......but what they are is forum moderators and that’s responsibility enough...that’s a heavy enough weight to carry...they’re not any type of specific experts in ways that 13-16yr may feel problems and worries they want to make a thread about, type thing...it all helps, all advice and thoughts help but it can’t be a fix as such....so a crutch is only one small thing, only one thing that plays a part, you know...anything more would just be too much responsibility on a forum ...too much weight for members or staff to carry...

...I’m so, so pleased that you feel the value of TiBB, Parmy...I’m so pleased you find so much comfort in it at times......but with some things you feel at times with what you say....?...yeah, absorb the crutch that the forum can be and your friends on here can be in their loveliness and supportiveness...but also...think about those who are experts in helping people walk with less need of crutches...because no weight of responsibility is put on them that they’re not extremely skilled to bear...and any help they give will be of so much value in ways TiBB couldn’t offer in being just a lovely old Internet forum...



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[Ammi]

...the belief that you have in TiBB, Parmy...the value in your life that TiBB has...more than anything else, you need to feel that belief and value in yourself...those great people here that help you through some days so much...?...they already have that belief in you and they do value you ...but you have to feel that very high self worth as well....

[Amy Jade]

If I read this right and you are proposing a private forum for younger members to post without any judgement which can only be seen by moderators and admin then I think it's probably a a kind gesture but in reality it's not fair to expect the moderators to wade through posts possibly made by vulnerable teens.

Plus in my experience on here one of the people you mentioned as being the responsible parties is one of the most judgemental members on here. I wouldn't really want that person advising me when I was a messy 14 year old.

[Cherie]

Parm, you truely are a very thoughtful person and you don’t deserve the awful hand you were dealt in life or some of the **** you have to put up with on here

[bots]

Keep your chin up parmy

[thesheriff443]

Parma, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink!

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Best advise I can give is to leave your troubles at home when you come to tibb.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by parmnion

If nicky can change his mind and have 500 friends....

I can have none, but change my mind once.....


So tonight marshy, im gonna be 13-16...struggling in life, looking for help....no home..parents...no one...alone..sucked into a life i dont want to be in..being raped, but all i have is tibb...

Well if a 48yr old twat can sort of gravitate his life round tibb cause off ****....then seeing as 13-16 yr olds can post i would hate to think there is 1 out there sitting looking for help but not being able to ask for it....cause of some forum dissappearing.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Come back waterhog

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

Keep your chin up parmy

straight white man statement

[Beso]

Im fine everyone...

Seems like a daft idea this morning..i was sure it was workable last night.

Anyway, back to the daily grind.

[Crimson Dynamo]

keep buggering on

[Nicky91]

great to hear Parmy

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Im fine everyone...

Seems like a daft idea this morning..i was sure it was workable last night.

Anyway, back to the daily grind.

Only just seen this thread Parmy , never let anyone stop you from suggesting something that comes from kindness , it was a nice idea.

[Niamh.]

Hope you're feeling OK Parmnion

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Parm, you truely are a very thoughtful person and you don’t deserve the awful hand you were dealt in life or some of the **** you have to put up with on here

More or less what I was going to say. Parm is one of my favourite people on here. Hate seeing anyone really down.

And... wow, there is some nasty sh1t on this thead that the authors probably thought came across as cool, cynical and edgy.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Livia

More or less what I was going to say. Parm is one of my favourite people on here. Hate seeing anyone really down.

And... wow, there is some nasty sh1t on this thead that the authors probably thought came across as cool, cynical and edgy.

Unfortunately...its the same old ****e from those authors time and time again.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Unfortunately...its the same old ****e from those authors time and time again.