[Maru]

Originally Posted by annabelindabee

If my daughter was a porn star I would want to shame her as much a I could ... and I would do it out of love for shaming her of her ways would make her think twice about her career path and would hopefully get her to stop stripping, give up sleeping with strangers and hopefully get a normal job like the rest of God the mothers children...

sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind... why am i the only one who can see this...

She has an 8 year old child... why the hell is she a stripper when the money that BB could have given her would have been enough for her to quite that horrible job!

If shaming her will make her see sense then great! ... Love is why she would have done that!

We don't have to be cruel to be kind as mothers... we should be straight-up and I'm all about tough love, but we don't put our personal business out there in magazines unless we want to start something... especially with all the other kinds of things and harassment that goes on online, the kinds of people out there who will stalk and harass her someone for the most insane of reasoning(s)... we don't know what these people are capable of... and the media is predatorial... her mother injecting her own venom into the equation, which we've just admitted is cruel, adds more toxic solution to that equation by inadvertently enabling any other outright nonsense they write about her... I'm not saying we should feel overly sympathetic, she chose to be in the public eye... but it's not wrong to expect as a person that our mother's love to be unconditional...