[chuff me dizzy]

So who would it do good ? and I doubt he will give a flying one what anyone thinks when the cheque hits his bank

[tanussa]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

It will only affirm to him his behaviour is correct and celebrated.
It will delay any self-reflection and addressing his obvious issues like anger, hostility to other people, intolerance, defeatism and control-freakery.
Thoughts?

thats a lot of negatives. I bet if you try really hard you can come up with a positive

[susie q]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

If you watch his vt you will know that he's very self aware. He knows he can be erratic and he admitted he suffers from anxiety and paranoia.

But how do we know that he was telling the truth on his VT?

[Jules82]

Originally Posted by susie q

But how do we know that he was telling the truth on his VT?

That applies to all of them but it will take to long to go through them.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by susie q

But how do we know that he was telling the truth on his VT?

The way he acts. It's obvious he has anxiety and paranoia.

[millyrose]

It will make him feel good just like it would any of them and besides it will make me feel good if he won

[Twosugars]

And so it came to pass. His anger got the better of him.
Hopefully that will kick start much needed soul-searching. It's not enough spouting words of Dalai Lama. Undestanding and application is where it's at.

[montblanc]

well he ain't winning now!

[poppsywoppsy]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

And so it came to pass. His anger got the better of him.
Hopefully that will kick start much needed soul-searching. It's not enough spouting words of Dalai Lama. Undestanding and application is where it's at.

I second that about everyone.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by montblanc

well he ain't winning now!

I know, sis. TF