[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

She couldn't accept that her and Curtis were over.

I get that, I really do but you are not putting any responsibility for that on Curtis when even he has admitted it is his fault, he lead her on for too long and then dropped her and she had no idea it was coming. How do you expect her to behave? Surely, you've been through a break up that wasn't what you wanted? It hurts and she will want to know why.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I get that, I really do but you are not putting any responsibility for that on Curtis when even he has admitted it is his fault, he lead her on for too long and then dropped her and she had no idea it was coming. How do you expect her to behave? Surely, you've been through a break up that wasn't what you wanted? It hurts and she will want to know why.

I think they're both responsible for what happened. There's two people in a relationship. But this is only my opinion.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I think they're both responsible for what happened. There's two people in a relationship. But this is only my opinion.

...two people in the relationship but only one person didn’t want to proceed with it ...but gave no indication of that whatsoever to the 2nd person in the relationship who was stunned by it all..?...

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...two people in the relationship but only one person didn’t want to proceed with it ...but gave no indication of that whatsoever to the 2nd person in the relationship who was stunned by it all..?...

Amy's fault.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...two people in the relationship but only one person didn’t want to proceed with it ...but gave no indication of that whatsoever to the 2nd person in the relationship who was stunned by it all..?...

This is my opinion. We will have to agree to disagree on this.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

This is my opinion. We will have to agree to disagree on this.

.....we will indeed, Vanessa...

[rusticgal]

I think she has done the right thing by leaving...she was going to struggle to see Curtis move on with anybody..whether that was Maura or a new girl.
It’s a shame but she has done what was right for her and most of us can see that. Curtis will carry the burden...he made a mistake but many have done the same and the girls have moved on..this is LI.
It just goes to show that programmes like this can backfire...but to go on it you have to be made of sterner stuff because ‘dumping someone’ and ‘mugging people off’ is all part of it.
Amy was a vulnerable character...like I have said before I don’t think she should have gone on the show to start with.

[Ammi]

..I guess we don’t really know how vulnerable we are until the damage is already done...and until someone we cared about and trusted, has misled us...she wanted a lifetime experience like everyone else and sadly the person she coupled with, lied and misled her......yeah time for her to go and move on now and realise some people in life are not so good...

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I think they're both responsible for what happened. There's two people in a relationship. But this is only my opinion.

And I respect your opinion but disagree with it hugely. I honestly don't understand why you cant accept that curtis was at fault when the man himself owned it said those very words.

However, as you have said to Ammi, we will have to agree to disagree because I will never agree that the break up was a joint thing