[Tom4784]

All that tells me she deals in gossip. She's not part of the family, she, like the rest of us, do not know their struggles and she's relying on hearsay from others to push a narrative.

If I were to go to your neighbour and ask them about you, and then publish those views as the truth, it wouldn't be accurate, so why accept similar speculation and gossip as the truth? It's just pointless.