[user104658]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

why should they, if someone finds wearing something embarrassing to wear, why should they be indoctrinated into finding it acceptable? That is completely ludicrous. If someone wants to wear something ... that's fair enough, but there should never be any pressure put on someone to wear something they are completely uncomfortable with which seems to be what you are suggesting

I didn’t say anything of the sort; people should wear whatever they want (or in a school/workplace, the uniform prescribed) what I said was, if people’s REASON for not wearing a certain piece of clothing is that it’s “too girly” and the further reason for that being an issue isn’t “and that’s not my style”, but “and there’s something inherently embarrassing about boys doing girl-stuff”, then those people need to take a look at their reasoning because almost certainly on either a conscious or subconscious level, they are equating “female” with “lesser”.