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Old 17-06-2022, 01:04 PM #1
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Default Woman Says She’s Been Ordered to Pay Her Rapist Child Support

How can this happen?? Yes rape is hard to prove, especially after all the years but this case is cut and dry, she was 16 so as the father of her child he raped while she was under age??

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A Louisiana woman is seeking justice after her alleged rapist was granted full custody of her daughter.

Crysta Abelseth told WBRZ the assault took place in 2005 when she was just 16 years old. She claims she was at a bar when she met a then-30-year-old John Barnes, who offered to take her home. Abelseth, now 32, says Barnes instead took her to his residence and raped her on his living room couch. She says the attack resulted in pregnancy.

“Everybody else just assumed it was from a boyfriend, and I just let them believe that,” she explained.

Abelseth said Barnes learned about the child in 2011 and decided to pursue custody. A subsequent DNA test confirmed Barnes was the father, and he was initially granted 50 percent custody. It was a shocking decision, as the sexual encounter—even if consensual—was illegal due to Abelseth’s age at the time. Under Louisiana law, no one under 17 can legally consent to sexual intercourse.

Fast-forward to summer 2015, when Abelseth decided to press charges against Barnes, alleging simple rape. When asked why she waited so long to file a report, Abelseth said she wasn’t aware she had the option.

“I was young and I didn’t know the law at the time. I didn’t think I had any more time to do it,” she said. “I thought if I didn’t do it right after it happened—like, the next day—then there was nothing I could do about it [...] I went to that trauma counselor, and he informed me, ‘No, you have 30 years after you turn 18.’”

Tangipahoa Parish Sheriff’s Office says the investigation is still open; however, Abelseth says law enforcement has refused to take any action.

“It was never assigned to any detective and nothing was ever investigated,” she said.

WBRZ confirmed that Barnes owns and operates a web branding company based in Ponchatoula; his listed clients include the Ponchatoula Police Department. Abelseth told the outlet she believes Barnes has managed to avoid criminal punishment because of his connections to the local justice system.

Earlier this year, a judge gave Barnes full custody of Abelseth’s 16-year-old daughter, after claiming the mother gave the teen a cellphone without his permission. Abelseth says she was also ordered to pay Barnes child support.

Stacie Triche, who works for the nonprofit organization Save Lives, said she is now helping Abelseth regain custody of her daughter.

“She’s been forced to pay her perpetrator,” Triche said. “She’s been forced to pay the rapist child support, she’s been forced to pay his legal fees, and she’s been forced to give up custody of this child that’s a product of the rape. It just makes no sense.”
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It’s terrible but she shouldn’t of been in the bar so the question of age wouldn’t hold up in court.
Did he know her age at the time?, was it a simple one night stand?

Wanting custody of a child conceived by rape must be unusual.
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It’s terrible but she shouldn’t of been in the bar so the question of age wouldn’t hold up in court.
Did he know her age at the time?, was it a simple one night stand?
I'e heard of cases of stat rape being taken forward in instances where the older one could reasonably believe the younger one was of age.
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What is going on over there though? Women's rights are being pushed backwards so much

Yes it appears,
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"Rapist was granted full custody of her daughter."



I agree that is so wrong.

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america has always been screwed up. Stuff is being highlighted now, but there are states that have always been completely backward and weird. At it's heart, the USA is no different from the middle east
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I'e heard of cases of stat rape being taken forward in instances where the older one could reasonably believe the younger one was of age.
Yes with rape being so high I’m sure there are many cases
Not to excuse anyone she had a boyfriend at the time and people parents? Just assumed it was the bf so we’re they sexually active.

We don’t know much as with most cases.
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Yes there are some crazy sounding laws I think this country has some too
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So one law in this country if you hit and kill a pheasant on the road, if you pick it up and keep it it’s poaching but if the car behind picks it up to keep its not.

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