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Originally Posted by Cherie

Has anyone asked Harold why he didn't bother to make the effort to meet his future father in law during the engagement, I would be fascinated by the answer

According to Tom Bower's research for his book, Meghan made sure they didn't meet in case Thomas inadvertently gave a different account of her childhood and certain events than Meghan had given Harry. She told him tall tales to make him believe she shared his pain of childhood trauma - a we have SO much in common thing.

Harry on radio interview "The Royals are the family she never had".
She barely knew her half sister and half brother brother etc.

....and on top of that, according to the impressions of some who worked with her in Toronto, she was ashamed of his appearance and unsophistication.