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Old 11-03-2023, 12:21 PM #1
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She marketed herself as scary spice then, despite having the means to leave him, she stayed with an abuser. It's an enigma.
It's not always easy to leave an abusive spouse.

Conflicted feelings are a helluva drug. Children complicate things.
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It's not always easy to leave an abusive spouse.

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She had the means to leave. She chose to stay with her children in that environment for ten years. To me it looks like she chose him over them.
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She had the means to leave. She chose to stay with her children in that environment for ten years. To me it looks like she chose him over them.
And it looks to me like she was in love with a manipulative abuser, and probably couldn't even fathom that she had the option to leave.
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And it looks to me like she was in love with a manipulative abuser, and probably couldn't even fathom that she had the option to leave.
Loving a man shouldn't allow a woman to place her kids in danger... And I find it hard to believe she was blinded by love for TEN YEARS!
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Loving a man shouldn't allow a woman to place her kids in danger... And I find it hard to believe she was blinded by love for TEN YEARS!
I think this is a topic about which we'll have to agree to differ
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I remember hearing about this at the time, when she was a judge on XF ..... I'm sure some people on tibb said she had bruises ?.

Also has anyone every thought that both of them could have been abusive towards eachother?? , just a thought...as it happens in relationships. But nobody should be putting their hands on someone unless it's self defence.
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