[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by fredmeneedle

In her place I would have said I was a barmaid or summat.... something less threatening to the others to stop them feeling they were being constantly evaluated/assessed (which I think they do now)

Funny you say this,I'm sure American BB use to sometimes embellish their backgrounds as for this very reason,as not to be judged. I know I've definitely seen it on other reality shows...where they've kept their cards close to their chest .

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

As introvert I would struggle in that situation as well. I really liked her in tonight's episode. It's good that she's talking to Nathan more.

Both her and Nathan will trip eachother up if they're not careful,this whole " alliance" is giving me bitchy vibes.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Maru

God help Marcello's soul if he ever wrongs Lily in any way. That would go over very poorly with the public.

I am not particularly protective of her, but I can already see the amassing of the pitchforks.

I hope that he doesn't do that either, for his own sake when he comes out of the house.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Ray.

I'd never buy her as a barmaid lol. Would be the most unapproachable barmaid ever.

Bar patron: Excuse me, miss?

Ali:

A believable job for Ali would be something spa related, I can imagine her playing whale sounds for someone as she gives them a massage. She's so quiet and calm...and usually that's the relaxed vibe in a wellness environment .

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I hope that he doesn't do that either, for his own sake when he comes out of the house.

The good thing to come out of this is when he does go home all the local women will know he’s a sleezball creep and will give him a wide berth for their own safety


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[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Thing is it’s quite discreet plus she’s gorgeous and that does make a difference .. imho



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I always remember the girl in Linkin Park's Crawling Music Video wearing one.

God I need to listen to that song later.😄

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Zizu

The good thing to come out of this is when he does go home all the local women will know he’s a sleezball creep and will give him a wide berth for their own safety


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So far I can't really disagree with this post, unfortunately as he has done it to himself.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Mrluvaluva

That in itself is quite a disgusting comment. I know he's a sleazeball but don't project him as a paedophile or something. Wow!

Yeah that's pretty low , there's no evidence of that. No doubt...he is a pest and a bit of a sleaze though.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Zizu

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Thanks for this Zizu,as I'm missing the live feed .

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Thanks for this Zizu,as I'm missing the live feed .

You are welcome !


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[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Has Ali been flirting with Lily though?

Or am I just letting my own personal repulsion towards Lily cloud how other people are perceiving her?

Nobody is fancying Lily , they're all babying her . She acts like a toddler .

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Nobody is fancying Lily , they're all babying her . She acts like a toddler .

Thank God, because you've said yourself, she behaves like a toddler.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Tbh I hadn't thought about the possible Homophobia allegations until you just mentioned it lol.

Tbf if I'm wrong then great, but if I'm right then I'll still like Ali to a point, but I would be disappointed with the strategy.

I really hope Ali lets her hair down , and tries bonding with the boys more bar Marcello of course.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I really hope Ali lets her hair down , and tries bonding with the boys more bar Marcello of course.

I agree.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Nobody is fancying Lily , they're all babying her . She acts like a toddler .

I don’t think it’s an act because eating your bogeys is taking it too far

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I don’t think it’s an act because eating your bogeys is taking it too far

Yeah and she's supposed to be 20 , so it's alarming how she still behaves like a little nursery child who has no self awareness about basic health skills or Safety,she works in a takeaway shop.

Then again ...some of these takeaway places probably fail food hygiene anyway.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Yeah and she's supposed to be 20 , so it's alarming how she still behaves like a little nursery child who has no self awareness about basic health skills or Safety,she works in a takeaway shop.

Then again ...some of these takeaway places probably fail food hygiene anyway.

She is just immature for her age

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

They’re not forgetting, they just don’t care

Yeah, seems that way.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I personally don't mind women wearing stuff like that personally, it shows a bit more character and style imo.

Yes .. it shows a touch of individuality


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[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Jesus .. he’s not suitable to be working with young women !

He’s already shown many times that he behaves inappropriately with and around young women and that’s with a hundred cameras around


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He’s also a very bad role model for young men. If he wants to go back to his job after this, I think they are going to have some serious discussions with him about how he’s presented himself on national TV.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Very much so

I have dyslexia/ aspergers / adhd


It’s exhausting though I wouldn’t change a thing even if I could .


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Never change a thing thing, Zizu. To me, people with ASD, are the most wonderful people to spend time with, and I’ve often said the world would be a better place if everyone was autistic. My dream has always been to own some land in the countryside, to use as an animal sanctuary, and for everyone who works there to be on the spectrum. That would be such a blissful existence.

You will have an understanding of Ali that many people won’t have, and will be aware that people on the spectrum are generally upfront and honest - they don’t usually have a sly or devious nature in my experience, as they find it difficult to lie.

And you are right to mention how exhausting it is to have these conditions, and be in a social setting for a long period of time, as it becomes overwhelming. This is why Ali is bound to withdraw from the group at some points, and just decompress. That isn’t her being aloof, which is how it can be interpreted.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by ThomasC

You have read into that way too much. It's not that deep. She happens to just not have 'hung' around a Tory before. I would suspect most haven't and probably wouldn't want to.

I don't think she's making alliances to gain upper. What I have noticed so far is that if she has said something about someone behind their back she later will discuss it with them

And the truth is, every one of us discusses other people when they’re not there, and share our opinions on them. It’s part of being human, and a way of understanding others more effectively. As you say, often the reason for doing so is to clarify our thoughts in order to discuss any issues with the person at a later point.

[thesheriff443]

You can be on the spectrum and be a nasty piece of work
One that springs to mind is the autistic guy that stabbed his girlfriend about 26 times to death

My daughter is autistic my partner works in
In a college with special needs

Last week she had a water bottle and a table thrown at her

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Zizu

People change , evolve ..

It’s obvious that opinions will change after observing and getting to know each other


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Exactly! That’s what happens in real life, and it is why, as viewers, we develop a greater understanding of housemates as time goes by, and sometimes change our own views on them as a consequence.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

You can be on the spectrum and be a nasty piece of work
One that springs to mind is the autistic guy that stabbed his girlfriend about 26 times to death

My daughter is autistic my partner works in
In a college with special needs

Last week she had a water bottle and a table thrown at her

Of course but she's not been a nasty piece of work. She reserved and quiet which she already explained is because of be8ng on the spectrum