[Zizu]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Ali actually reminds me of the time nasty nick was in the house

Oh yeah , he breathed oxygen , drank water and ate food as well !!!


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[Crimson Dynamo]

Has Ali actually spent any time with the boys bar Nathan

Has she got an issue with hetro men??

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo

Has Ali actually spent any time with the boys bar Nathan

Has she got an issue with hetro men??

I'm starting to think she only gets on with Nathan and she thinks they're 2 peas in a pod... he's very much in the bosom of her group . But he also gets on with Emma it seems ,I wonder how Ali will feel...if she knew Nathan disagreed with her views on Khaled.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Oh yeah , he breathed oxygen , drank water and ate food as well !!!


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Look you need calm the fcuk down
People are allowed opinions based on what we have seen learned and experienced

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Look you need calm the fcuk down
People are allowed opinions based on what we have seen learned and experienced

I am perfectly calm .. seems it’s you who is stressing- I simply don’t agree with your ridiculous ( imho) comparison


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[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Zizu

I am perfectly calm .. seems it’s you who is stressing- I simply don’t agree with your ridiculous ( imho) comparison


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I won’t been feeding you any more

[arista]

Originally Posted by Maru

I don't think it was good she revealed she worked in psych so early on, because now she's pigeon-holed into the box of being the "professional friend" while she is in... it's going to make it difficult for the public to warm to her since now every comment made seen as being made under an umbrella. It would've been more entertaining to let it go on a bit longer without the reveal...

Yes, she needs to Relax.

Her Stubbornness looks hard

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by arista

Yes, she needs to Relax.

Her Stubbornness looks hard

Some people with her particular complexities simply cannot relax …


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[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Some people with her particular complexities simply cannot relax …


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I understand the difficulties ,but it honestly feels like you're giving her a huge pass. She has no problem mixing with certain housemates if she wants to, I get that Khaled and herself are from very different backgrounds...and probably wouldn't speak on the outside world.

But this is the same person who said she "doesn't hang around with Tories", and here she is besties with Nathan . She doesn't have to get on with everyone in the house. But she's coming across bitchy with it.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Some people with her particular complexities simply cannot relax …

Maybe a man
can make her happy?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by arista

Maybe a man
can make her happy?

Have you been watching the show LOL


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[Ammi]

Originally Posted by arista

Maybe a man
can make her happy?

…oh dear Lord, Arista…she’s had a man, she wasn’t happy…she’s found a lady, she’s happy…them’s the apples, really…

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I'm starting to think she only gets on with Nathan and she thinks they're 2 peas in a pod... he's very much in the bosom of her group . But he also gets on with Emma it seems ,I wonder how Ali will feel...if she knew Nathan disagreed with her views on Khaled.

I have a feeling something went down last night and Khaled got a little ganged up on...Nathan came to his defence I think...hence the conversation between Nathan and Daze. Nathan seems unaware of Ali's dislike of Khalid so maybe it will all come to light...Nathan needs to steer clear.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by arista

Maybe a man
can make her happy?

She's a Lesbian, Arista.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I understand the difficulties ,but it honestly feels like you're giving her a huge pass. She has no problem mixing with certain housemates if she wants to, I get that Khaled and herself are from very different backgrounds...and probably wouldn't speak on the outside world.

But this is the same person who said she "doesn't hang around with Tories", and here she is besties with Nathan . She doesn't have to get on with everyone in the house. But she's coming across bitchy with it.

I just know that she will be finding her time in the house about 3 times more difficult/ taxing / challenging/ exhausting than the rest of them .

I am 99.99% certain that her brain will be working 100% of the time in there.

She will also be doubting/ second guessing her every thought and suspicion then rerunning it all through her mind repeatedly.

All the above makes you extremely tense and maybe volatile


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[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Some people with her particular complexities simply cannot relax …


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everyone has "issues" whether they have a name or not

stop making excuses for her

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo

everyone has "issues" whether they have a name or not

stop making excuses for her

Well stop abusing/ attacking her with an endless stream of ridiculous claims and statements - you are making her into a hate hate figure from one or two conversations..

I admit to have criticised Marcello but for hundreds of sexual comments and suspect scenarios


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[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Well stop abusing/ attacking her with an endless stream of ridiculous claims and statements - you are making her into a hate hate figure from one or two conversations..

I admit to have criticised Marcello but for hundreds of sexual comments and suspect scenarios


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Don't you think it's strange though that Ali has such a strong dislike for Khaled,yet she's forgotten how Marcello lied about them kissing ?. You would think she'd still had it in for Marcello,but it seems she's not bothered by him now.

Khaled hasn't done anything to her , even if she finds some of his behaviour annoying...I find it very weird how she's turned on him.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…no, I have to say that I don’t get that impression at all…all we’ve seen of her is in the BB house and there’s only one disconnection with a male and that’s Khaled so I don’t get at all how that could equate to ‘most men’…and she’s been very clear in that she feels it’s because he’s very ‘measured’ and contrived even in his actions and thinking about what he feels he wants to present as a personality rather than who he really is…as emotionless as she seemed in her conversation with him, she was surely being herself and wasn’t thinking about how she would be perceived…if she was then that conversation wouldn’t have been what it was, surely…she would have just said…yeah, it’s all cool and dandy, let’s move on/type thing…she genuinely seems to believe he’s contrived and can’t get beyond that atm to form any sort of understanding with him…are my thoughts, anyway…

I think this is a very honest and rational summary of events, Ammi. I am not, personally seeing Khaled as fake. I just see a decent young guy, who is trying to treat others kindly and trying his best to fit in. To me, that’s understandable in the first week of meeting new people, and not a negative. I accept that, to some housemates, that might feel he is trying too hard, but I don’t feel he’s coming from a bad place.

Despite my understanding and defence of those on the Autistic Spectrum, I didn’t like what she did, or how she handled her feelings. She could have had a private conversation, and discussed her perception with him one-to-one. There was no need to call him out and humiliate him in a public setting - to me that was harsh, even though I understand that, to her, it was just being upfront and honest.

Part of me also feels that her thought process has been based on an analysis she might have made from a professional standpoint, which she would understand much more, rather than on social etiquette, that she would struggle to understand as effectively.

People on the spectrum can become quite fixated on certain things, and I think that she might have fixated on a certain view of Khaled that she can’t shake, and that is now affecting her perception of everything he says and does, even though it might not be justified.

In this instance, despite understanding it, I feel Ali’s actions were unnecessary and wrong, and I wish she would take a step back and think about the impact of public accusations and humiliation on an individual. Even if, in a social setting she might not understand that, she should be able to understand it from a professional basis.

[GoldHeart]

The funny thing is everything Ali is accusing others of doing or more specifically Khaled, she's actually doing herself.... it's more like projection.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Don't you think it's strange though that Ali has such a strong dislike for Khaled,yet she's forgotten how Marcello lied about them kissing ?. You would think she'd still had it in for Marcello,but it seems she's not bothered by him now.

Khaled hasn't done anything to her , even if she finds some of his behaviour annoying...I find it very weird how she's turned on him.

Well it shows she doesn’t hold grudges ( unlike Khaled who clearly said he would forgive ( for the cameras) but NOT forget when speaking about Ali yesterday.

It also shows she doesn’t hate all men as claimed by many on this forum ( repeatedly)


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[Beso]

Originally Posted by Zizu

How can you possibly know that


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Cause she said it herself on the 1st or 2nd night.

She said she was diagnosed with adhd, but sees some autistic traits in herself.

Like I said the other day, it's better to watch the show, then post. Rather than posting whilst watching. You pick up a lot more info that way.

[Adamw92]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Don't you think it's strange though that Ali has such a strong dislike for Khaled,yet she's forgotten how Marcello lied about them kissing ?. You would think she'd still had it in for Marcello,but it seems she's not bothered by him now.

Khaled hasn't done anything to her , even if she finds some of his behaviour annoying...I find it very weird how she's turned on him.

Have we even seen her really interact with Marcello since then though? Maybe she’s just distanced herself from him and doesn’t speak about him or maybe it’s not being shown if she does?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Beso

Like I said the other day, it's better to watch the show, then post. Rather than posting whilst watching. You pick up a lot more info that way.

Bollox

I record then watch with a delay

So watch pause post. .. watch pause post

Don’t let the truth or facts get in the way of your amateur sleuthing though ..baseless nonsense ..


I also watch 3 hours LIVE STREAM each night- do you ?


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Khaled hasn't done anything to her , even if she finds some of his behaviour annoying...I find it very weird how she's turned on him.

We see about 30 minutes of selective/edited highlights each day out of 24 HOURS

Now that works out at around 2 to 3 minutes of individual coverage .. yet everyone is soooooo happy to constantly crucify Ali based on a few minutes of specially selected footage


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