[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by Cherie

No but I wont be adopting that view any more than her accent

Cherie she has traditional views based on her religion & culture ,if LT bothered to actually listen fully to the conversation...which Segun was also apart of , he'd realise they both believe in marriage lasting and they are both saving themselves .

LT also failed to point out Hanah said the man actually provides for the woman in her culture,and makes sure she's looked after. It isn't all about the woman ' obeying ' but yes that is part of it . The man also has to prove himself worthy aswell .

Both Segun & Hanah hold similar views ,and have important values when it comes to love .

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Cherie she has traditional views based on her religion & culture ,if LT bothered to actually listen fully to the conversation...which Segun was also apart of , he'd realise they both believe in marriage lasting and they are both saving themselves .

LT also failed to point out Hanah said the man actually provides for the woman in her culture,and makes sure she's looked after. It isn't all about the woman ' obeying ' but yes that is part of it . The man also has to prove himself worthy aswell .

Both Segun & Hanah hold similar views ,and have important values when it comes to love .

And there is absolutely nothing wrong in it.

What a wonderful read this thread has been.

[Urban Cragou]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Cherie she has traditional views based on her religion & culture ,if LT bothered to actually listen fully to the conversation...which Segun was also apart of , he'd realise they both believe in marriage lasting and they are both saving themselves .

LT also failed to point out Hanah said the man actually provides for the woman in her culture,and makes sure she's looked after. It isn't all about the woman ' obeying ' but yes that is part of it . The man also has to prove himself worthy aswell .

Both Segun & Hanah hold similar views ,and have important values when it comes to love .

It wasn’t even about that. She was just pointing out what’s expected of her religion, not that those are personal beliefs of hers. Unless I’m missing something.