[Ammi]

…I don’t think for me it’s so much about being false…it’s more about giving thought to how she’s being perceived in terms of ‘self assessment’ if you like…and looking at how her own behaviour impacts a group …I mean, she’s openly said herself that she hasn’t lived independently etc …and she’s classed herself as ‘the laziest’ in the house because if there are others who are prepared to…?…then why bother…?…so it’s more about ….hmmmm, well…not being fake but doesn’t we learn, isn’t that what experiences do for us…?…if humans remained static in their outlook and actions etc, then what’s it all about…?……we’ll, it makes sense in my head anyway…’being yourself and genuine’ doesn’t mean, doesn’t mean there is no self reflection that can create change…