[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

Originally Posted by FromBB8

I think it was the forum it was delivered in, and possibly because she said nothing along those lines to him before (going by his shocked face afterwards). The advise as possibly reasonably, but the words chosen weren't. Maybe I'm an over-sensitive person too, but if a friend said that to me it would hurt. Especially if I missed the jokey tone.

Oh it would still hurt. But I think it could help him overall if he listens to her advice... so it's coming from an OK enough place.

It's better than the other question "Who would you chuck out the backdoor if you had the chance?"