[Livia]

I'm amused at the attempts on here, by men mostly, to equalise the debate by claiming "women do it too". I bet you can't direct me to where Nigella Lawson (for instance) said something like "if I put some of your food on my vaj, would you eat it?" . No... Because disgusting and inappropriate is not the same as sexy and suggestive. And there aren't that many cases of sexual violence by women on men. Men are, in most cases, the perpetrator. But nice try chaps, you make a half-decent argument but it's just not the same thing.