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Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan
Normally yes but this is the first year without my grandma I'm very sad
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…with what I know about grandmas, you feeling sad is not what she would have wanted for you, what she would have loved, I’m thinking..is your smiles and to see those…it’s really so difficult to lose a much loved person in your life and then have that ‘first’ of a time that was so significant in you sharing with them…?…but the reason that it is so significant is because of all of those feelings of happiness and joy that she was part of with you…and you won’t ever lose those…feeling sad is inevitable and understandable …but if you’re able to feel that you can…try to also feel the smiles that she gave you and so much would want to see also…

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