[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…not to detract and derail what’s a very interesting sharing of opinions between BBXX and Vesavius in offering different perspectives…the initial remarks that caused upset and offence from Mickey…?..were not only said to a gay person, the offensive term wasn’t just directed at a gay person…it was all pointedly directed at a gay female and the ‘tie you up’ comment was definitely something that many females would find very disturbing and wouldn’t find any ‘lightness of joking’ in at all in any world but most definitely in this current world…and I do feel that’s often forgotten or overshadowed with females…so I do think this all quite layered because no such remarks were made to any male of the house…only a young female…

…I was watching a vid of a bonding chat with JoJo and Mickey/discussing their tattoos…and it was all very sweet and it made me think…I do think that Mickey maybe struggles in relating to females other than on a ‘physical attraction/sexual’ type basis…I don’t know if that’s true, that’s just my own pondering but the tattoo chat they has was so endearing because it had such a ‘father/daughter’ type vibe …

Yeah, the 'tie you up' stuff was what I found most over the line in all honesty.

I do think that it was Mickey attempting banter with JoJo but I also think it was clumsy, ill judged, and inappropriate when directed at someone that doesn't know him or his intentions well.

But, yeah, JoJo has made peace with it and moved on and she's the one in there with him who sees the most of him, so I think I am happy to move on as well.

I am very impressed with her in all honesty.