[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Well he is the one and only

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Well he is the one and only

That he is

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Yes because it’s impossible to pretend for that long

No way is he Mr Perfect

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Yes because it’s impossible to pretend for that long

No way is he Mr Perfect

Zizu....he is one of my brother and his wife's best friends. I have seen him quite a lot, my Dad spent Boxing Day with them all this year....what you see there is what he is like. He's not perfect.....No-one is. But he is a nice guy.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Maru

By American normie standards, I wouldn't say she displays true maturity as much as she is using self-control to her advantage. It's very common for younger generations of females here to like to try to emulate adult think and give boring Ted Talks to try to outrank one another in the social strata. It always sounds like a pseudo-reformed form of narcissism , which is not only funny, but also a tell. Everyone is fighting to be the most evolved lifeform with their big logics in that game. She's constantly repeating what she has heard here and that she thinks other people might agree with. Haven't heard her say anything truly controversial or test the patience of someone else in an argument.

She is also very Miss CA and the politeness game is a big game with the young there more than not. It's hard to know if she will be tested properly given she's been using Chris' as a shield, especially with the gender boogiemen, but can tell she is very intimidated by the likes of Danny because he likes to cut through the ****. I think she's a typical narcissist in every way, but just doesn't give the red flags right away. I wouldn't say she is covert, but just very smartly playing the cards she has in her hands. 3 weeks isn't a lot of time for that to unravel.

Her "relationship" with Chris is a non-starter. They're just playing along to get along. If she were to try to change teams, it would totally change the entire game she's been playing, so I don't see it.

And yeah... she just might as well just identify as pansexual with her clear attraction. In my own opinion, she's picking other labels so that she can keep people guessing where exactly she might fall, but I don't really like the way she treats other people with this kind of playing with the mind. I can see her being really toxic irl with that nonsense. But that has nothing to do with Chris' behavior. Chris is just being Chris. He's always felt like he is just there for him and doing his own thing and Jojo is a convenient scapegoat to be whoever he wants to be.

I enjoyed your post, but she laughed along at being tricked in the task enough for me to believe she doesn't see a hierarchy in the house, and its not coming across that she believes she has to be anyway that's expected of her. Yeah, you may be correct about american kids and how they interact with each other, cause hey, wadda know.

All I see is a fun loving gal, A destined winner, and quite clearly the most sane one left in the house.

[Swan]

JoJo was just sat on his lap in basically a thong swimsuit thing in the hot tub. He's the manipulator, but she invites his attention

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Disgusting. I really want him to go.

What did he do?

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

She is enjoying his attention but that doesn't mean it's a good thing; that's what I mean by he knows exactly what he's doing. He's "love-bombing" her, the whole point is (essentially) getting someone "addicted to your attention". It's really toxic behaviour.

What the heck is love-bombing?

Verbal abuse is the way to go imo.


















I'm obviously joking about the verbal abuse part.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yep, textbook narcissistic behaviour. If you lose control, you go down the sympathy path.

Well people should worship him then.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Fair enough

I wanted to like him but he just seemed to good to be true .. then he bragged he was a naturist which is a tad odd in my book plus he was sooooo touchy-feely with Michael in those early days .


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[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Zizu

That’s the same nice guy front Chesney is using and everyone seems to be buying it


He literally flipped in the karaoke - showed his true self … yet everyone seems to have forgotten

That Karaoke segment was just odd imo.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Fair enough

I wanted to like him but he just seemed to good to be true .. then he bragged he was a naturist which is a tad odd in my book plus he was sooooo touchy-feely with Michael in those early days .


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Tbf to Chesney, I think him having certain behavioral traits that are personally alien to you (and to me tbf,) doesn't mean that he can't still be a nice guy.

I'll be honest and say that I think that Chesney thinks highly of himself, but I don't really believe him to be a nasty person.

I think that there's a difference.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

What the heck is love-bombing?

Verbal abuse is the way to go imo.


















I'm obviously joking about the verbal abuse part.

Love bombing is when someone (deliberately) pours all of their attention/laser focus/constant validation and compliments onto someone to make them feel extremely special and form an intense bond, in an unsustainable way. It's basically an emotional manipulation tactic.

[GlitterUK]

Chris and Jojo are both making the most of the experience which is what BB is all about. They throw themselves into tasks, secret missions and can play jokes and take jokes really well. I think their friendship is nice to see. I don't think Chris is using her for votes or fame etc. I think they both enjoy each others company, they are touchy feely but that is both of them being so it isn't one sided. I think Jojo will win, danny second and I can see Chris being third.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Love bombing is when someone (deliberately) pours all of their attention/laser focus/constant validation and compliments onto someone to make them feel extremely special and form an intense bond, in an unsustainable way. It's basically an emotional manipulation tactic.

It sounds like one of those creepy guys on Reddit or Facebook.

Thanks for explaining it to me btw.