[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

All you are doing with comments about her age is discrediting the maturity of a fully grown 21 year-old adult.

It's PATHETIC.

A 21 year old barely out of their teens is unlikely to have the life experience that a 30+ year old has and is vulnerable to manipulation by older adults - no magic button is pressed when people turn 18 that makes them suddenly "fully grown". You just want to justify getting a chub-on sat on your couch watching a girl 1/3 of your age taking a piss in cat litter. Let's not start calling each other "pathetic", glass houses and all that. She's a kid.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

A 21 year old barely out of their teens is unlikely to have the life experience that a 30+ year old has and is vulnerable to manipulation by older adults - no magic button is pressed when people turn 18 that makes them suddenly "fully grown". You just want to justify getting a chub-on sat on your couch watching a girl 1/3 of your age taking a piss in cat litter. Let's not start calling each other "pathetic", glass houses and all that. She's a kid.

You are such a sad caricature of your former self these days. It's actually sad to see, and you are not making it easy not to describe your comments as pathetic when you come out with insults like that.


Barely out of her teens, ffs. Pathetic..

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

You are such a sad caricature of your former self these days. It's actually sad to see, and you are not making it easy not to describe your comments as pathetic when you come out with insults like that.


Barely out of her teens, ffs. Pathetic..

Any version of myself would have agreed with all of this Parmy. Can you point out the version of me that thought it was OK for 21 year old girls to be leeched off by blokes in their 30's?

[user104658]

She's also literally barely out of her teens Parmy, how are you arguing against that? When we were all sat around in Covid lockdown couple of years back, she was still in school. Give your head a wobble she is still a kid. I'm not saying she shouldn't be flirting and having relationships and having people interested in her. I'm saying that those people should be in their 20's, because she is 21.

[bots]

it really doesn't matter what age people are. "Dominating" people to force behaviour is not acceptable. Think Stephen Kings Misery

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Any version of myself would have agreed with all of this Parmy. Can you point out the version of me that thought it was OK for 21 year old girls to be leeched off by blokes in their 30's?

I meant the silly jibes... but shes the one touching him up, and sucking his shorts. He kisses her forehead and fully clothed back on occasion. But really, none of that matters, as they are both grown adults.

Look back in history as well if you want..most of us will have parents where the father is a good few years older than the mother..plus the marriages tend to last a lifetime..

Seriously modern take on stuff like age gaps are so so outdated.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Beso

I meant the silly jibes... but shes the one touching him up, and sucking his shorts. He kisses her forehead and fully clothed back on occasion. But really, none of that matters, as they are both grown adults.

Look back in history as well if you want..most of us will have parents where the father is a good few years older than the mother..plus the marriages tend to last a lifetime..

Seriously modern take on stuff like age gaps are so so outdated.

Most of my friends parents are similar ages, my own parents are the same age

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Most of my friends parents are similar ages, my own parents are the same age

How old are you?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Beso

How old are you?

46

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

She's young and probably still figuring things out. I'd say she's bisexual.

Maybe Mickey was onto something before the rest of us started having suspicions


Only joking !!

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Swan

Well the description of queer is confusing then, from googling and reading up, being queer can suggest you can be attracted to any gender. Lesbian is specific, whereas queer is not.

The whole gender issue is a complete puzzle

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Swan

When he was 21 and out clubbing and shagging, JoJo was 9 years old. Age makes much less of a difference when you get older, but yeah in this case it's a bit yucky.

More like when he was 17 and sha** ing around Jo Jo was about 5 years old

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

I meant the silly jibes... but shes the one touching him up, and sucking his shorts. He kisses her forehead and fully clothed back on occasion. But really, none of that matters, as they are both grown adults.

Look back in history as well if you want..most of us will have parents where the father is a good few years older than the mother..plus the marriages tend to last a lifetime..

Seriously modern take on stuff like age gaps are so so outdated.

You have a strange concept out what "outdated" means Parmy. Yes it used to be more common for older men to marry young girls. In the past. That is what's outdated.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Maybe Mickey was onto something before the rest of us started having suspicions


Only joking !!

She's clearly attracted to Chris.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

We can all share opinions about whatever we like wherever we like, it's a wonderful thing isn't it?

I said you can question what you like on here
Or are you looking for a reaction?

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Most of my friends parents are similar ages, my own parents are the same age

My parents had 9 months between them too!

[thesheriff443]

Years ago couples had large families times have changed somewhat but age gaps still exist both way round

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

You have a strange concept out what "outdated" means Parmy. Yes it used to be more common for older men to marry young girls. In the past. That is what's outdated.

Love is timeless.

And they are women, not young girls. Stop using sensationalism to make your opinion sound more dramatic.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Years ago couples had large families times have changed somewhat but age gaps still exist both way round

Yes age gap not a problem for me. They're both adults.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

My parents had 9 months between them too!

What about your grandparents?

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

What about your grandparents?

"My great, great, great grandfather's dad was a 30 year old viking raider wot sexually assaulted a young pagan girl and he turned out just fine, so it's actually natural!"

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

"My great, great, great grandfather's dad was a 30 year old viking raider wot sexually assaulted a young pagan girl and he turned out just fine, so it's actually natural!"

That’s such a mature post from you qb
You bleet on about having debates and then act like a tit

Honestly this post should stay up because if you act like a tit you should get treated like a tit

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

"My great, great, great grandfather's dad was a 30 year old viking raider wot sexually assaulted a young pagan girl and he turned out just fine, so it's actually natural!"

I can see who you take after.

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Beso

What about your grandparents?

They're dead, I can't ask them, but as far as I know they were all of similar ages to their partners.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

That’s such a mature post from you qb
You bleet on about having debates and then act like a tit

Honestly this post should stay up because if you act like a tit you should get treated like a tit

The same older blokes get angry every time I bring up that it's icky for middle aged men to pine after people in their late teens and early 20's, none of this is surprising in the slightest. It's not my problem that my opinion on these "perfectly normal healthy lovely acceptable age gaps" makes you uncomfortable. I know it's "legal". I know they're "legally adults". I think it's gross behaviour. Deal with it.

And I don't know if you've noticed Sheriff but...

...this is an on-season BB section. I've been pretty clear that people should keep certain types of textual intercourse out of serious debates.

We ain't in serious debates .