[Redway]

Originally Posted by Maru

I haven't picked up one way or another. I definitely don't have a resting bitch face. I'm fairly talkative around the right vibes, but I don't like the idea of forcing myself into people's spaces and like to stay out of other people's business, so I guess I give enough space by default that I've never had some issue.

If anything, I think being "too nice" is more of a problem for the culture I'm near/around. People here are more down-to-earth and less concerned with social filters.

I do agree with sheriff, it doesn't really matter what people think, but it's also because I tend to think other people's mindsets don't revolve around me. When we think that way, I tend to believe we worry about how the world responds to us more often than we probably should and it means we don't see what is around us for what it is... like I like to think the world is doing its own thing with and without me and so it's something I get to enjoy and observe. That's probably why I don't really notice how people read me because I probably am much more interested in them than they are in me... which sounds about right.

The RBF thing was just an example. I wasn’t insinuating that you have to fall into that category to go for option 2.