[mrs-big]

i started on Monday, and i was scared too, because im not the best at making friends haha, but it has been fine so far
Even though the first 2 weeks are induction weeks, so not doing much!

[_Seth]

I start tomorrow. Im so scared

[MassiveTruck]

[rquote=2569799&tid=147216&author=Phlip]I start tomorrow. Im so scared [/rquote]

Make whatever friends you can (no weird ones up themselves) and stick with them and by them.

Don't be afraid of alcohol. It is your friend. Treat it as such.

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

College was horrible , i was so nervous so i didn't talk to anyone so I'm a loner now

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2571582&tid=147216&author=MassiveTruck][rquote=2569799&tid=147216&author=Phlip]I start tomorrow. Im so scared [/rquote]

Make whatever friends you can (no weird ones up themselves) and stick with them and by them.

Don't be afraid of alcohol. It is your friend. Treat it as such.[/rquote]

I wish that was True of the myth of college

but it's not i'm afraid from my experience. If your not gay guy or Female you don't make friends. I just couldn't connect with any of my fellow classmates, most just wanted to do their college work then go home and rarely on college nights out did anyone go out. only three other guys and myself out of a class of 25 turned up. I've done two courses both were miserable experience's in terms of making mates

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

I Have one mate in my whole college and i was good mates with her before college.

I agree with ArsenalForever, if you aren't gay or a girl it's much harder to make mates

[Lauren]

Whys it easier if you're a girl? (or gay for that matter lol)

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

[rquote=2587696&tid=147216&author=Lauren]Whys it easier if you're a girl? (or gay for that matter lol)[/rquote]

I don't know, it just seemed that way the other day. It was me and mate, then in front a load of girls and gay guys trading numbers and chatting. Maybe, it's just that me and my mate aren't social enough

[Lauren]

lol, maybe they're just super confident. I don't think many people can just get chatting to a group of people they don't know! With college I think the best friends are made overtime, when youre put in a group with someone you don't really know etc.

[Billy]

I bet you they threw themselves into conversations though. You really have to do that on the first few days, although I met my best college friend when I bumped into her in the lift haha, but yeah just try harder on making friends. Don't appear cliquey either and try and speak to everyone.

I started 2 weeks ago and already we are all really close! We all sit around the one table at lunch and breaks and stuff and it's amazing,.

[MassiveTruck]

[rquote=2586756&tid=147216&author=arsenalforever][rquote=2571582&tid=147216&author=MassiveTruck][rquote=2569799&tid=147216&author=Phlip]I start tomorrow. Im so scared [/rquote]

Make whatever friends you can (no weird ones up themselves) and stick with them and by them.

Don't be afraid of alcohol. It is your friend. Treat it as such.[/rquote]

I wish that was True of the myth of college

but it's not i'm afraid from my experience. If your not gay guy or Female you don't make friends. I just couldn't connect with any of my fellow classmates, most just wanted to do their college work then go home and rarely on college nights out did anyone go out. only three other guys and myself out of a class of 25 turned up. I've done two courses both were miserable experience's in terms of making mates[/rquote]

I'm sorry to hear about that.

My example was more to do with University than College. My college experience wasn't as bad as yours. I think I had in the region of 50 plus people I knew and who knew me. It was that huge.

I think, like I said about Uni, you should make the most of what friends you have and do as much as you can with them. Don't hesitate to talk to people and get to know them more to. I guess you are probably young and you'll only learn with experience.

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

The thing that makes college worse is the fact that I'm in a course I'm not really interested in

[Billy]

[rquote=2588393&tid=147216&author=LethalDealer]The thing that makes college worse is the fact that I'm in a course I'm not really interested in [/rquote]
Find one you wanna do then. You may find people more suited to you aswell!

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

That's what I'm hoping to do

[mrs-big]

[rquote=2588393&tid=147216&author=LethalDealer]The thing that makes college worse is the fact that I'm in a course I'm not really interested in [/rquote]

You still have time to change to one that you want to do !

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

Well my actual classes start on Monday so I'll have to act quick.

[mrs-big]

[rquote=2588462&tid=147216&author=LethalDealer]Well my actual classes start on Monday so I'll have to act quick. [/rquote]

Btw, why did you choose that course in the first place if you weren't interested in it?

[Dolphin-and-Whale]

We had to choose top 10 of what we wanted and I didn't get the first few so i only got that one but I honestly don't know why i put it there considering i have absolutely no interest