[Ross]

A 38 year old.

Although my daughter would be legal. Who knows what that filthy man would do to her in all sorts of positions bcause she'd be vulnerable.

Unless he has never had sex before that is.

[InOne]

The Muslim and the 38 year old

[arista]

Originally Posted by Lauren

I wouldn't be bothered because I'd have brought my daughter up to make rational and respectful decisions. I'd prefer her not to go with a traveling gypsy because that wouldn't lead her a comfortable life at all... so I assume given her upbringing she wouldn't choose him either. The religion or ethnicity does not matter to me, so long as she is happy.

I am especially surprised at how many people are saying they'd be against the Muslim boy. Islam teaches peace and respect? I would not mind.

Lauren such a Easy Going Lady.

If only Real Life was like that.


On the Muslim - maybe you need 2 types
Extreme or Non Extreme.


Life In The Fast Lane.

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by Lauren

I wouldn't be bothered because I'd have brought my daughter up to make rational and respectful decisions. I'd prefer her not to go with a traveling gypsy because that wouldn't lead her a comfortable life at all... so I assume given her upbringing she wouldn't choose him either. The religion or ethnicity does not matter to me, so long as she is happy.

I am especially surprised at how many people are saying they'd be against the Muslim boy. Islam teaches peace and respect? I would not mind.

I actually thought you knew what was going out there ? For a girl, living in a Muslim family is very tough, either she is the daughter or step-daughter. Sure they make great food but she has a hard life being surrounded by her brothers and co. In some countries, woman can be burnt, killed by stones or shot in public because they dared to look at a man or just saying hello.
Extremists or not, life is not easy, and my ex-girlfriend really suffered from it, and more as the both of us didn't have the same religion.

[Tom]

Originally Posted by Ross

A 38 year old.

Although my daughter would be legal. Who knows what that filthy man would do to her in all sorts of positions bcause she'd be vulnerable.

Unless he has never had sex before that is.

You don't need to be 38 to have a girl in all sorts of positions

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by Tom

You don't need to be 38 to have a girl in all sorts of positions

But yet you are a wiser so you can teach her some moves.

[Crimson Dynamo]

How would everyone feel about the daughter asking if the bloke could spend the night in her room?

[InOne]

Get the gun

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

I actually thought you knew what was going out there ? For a girl, living in a Muslim family is very tough, either she is the daughter or step-daughter. Sure they make great food but she has a hard life being surrounded by her brothers and co. In some countries, woman can be burnt, killed by stones or shot in public because they dared to look at a man or just saying hello.
Extremists or not, life is not easy, and my ex-girlfriend really suffered from it, and more as the both of us didn't have the same religion.

But this isn't an Islam country and in my case the women of our family would probably smack someone upside the head if they were treated badly so I'd definately trust my hypothetical daughter with an Islamic man as I'd have raised her to make her own decisions and to know her own mind.

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

How would everyone feel about the daughter asking if the bloke could spend the night in her room?

It's a big NO. And not even debatable. Unless she wants to end up homeless with her boyfriend.

But if it was my son asking if his girlfriend could spend the night in his room, I would say yes.

Life is a bitch sometimes.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by InOne

Get the gun

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

It's a big NO. And not even debatable. Unless she wants to end up homeless with her boyfriend.

But if it was my son asking if his girlfriend could spend the night in his room, I would say yes.

Life is a bitch sometimes.

is the right answer

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

But yet you are a wiser so you can teach her some moves.

Maybe - she would be teaching you! 21st Century and all that!!!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

But this isn't an Islam country and in my case the women of our family would probably smack someone upside the head if they were treated badly so I'd definately trust my hypothetical daughter with an Islamic man as I'd have raised her to make her own decisions and to know her own mind.

Not as simple as that - love can do funny things to people - and make them very vulnerable to manipulation.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

How would everyone feel about the daughter asking if the bloke could spend the night in her room?

I wouldn't be comfortable with it if my kid was a boy or girl, I'm 19 and I'm still sneaking about

I've always maintained the thought though that if my kids are careful and know the risks I'd let them approach sexuality how they like. You can only educate and not dictate in these type of matters.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

It's a big NO. And not even debatable. Unless she wants to end up homeless with her boyfriend.

But if it was my son asking if his girlfriend could spend the night in his room, I would say yes.

Life is a bitch sometimes.

Sorry - but that is double-standards! Your daughter would be within her rights to feel very offended by that.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Not as simple as that - love can do funny things to people - and make them very vulnerable to manipulation.

All Islam men are manipulative brainwashing bastards who are demeaning to women then? It wouldn't happen in my family, We've all been taught to think for ourselves since we was kids and no one in my family would stay in an abusive relationship.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

It's a big NO. And not even debatable. Unless she wants to end up homeless with her boyfriend.

But if it was my son asking if his girlfriend could spend the night in his room, I would say yes.

Life is a bitch sometimes.

That'd do a lot of damage though, some standards are best left in the past.

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

But this isn't an Islam country and in my case the women of our family would probably smack someone upside the head if they were treated badly so I'd definately trust my hypothetical daughter with an Islamic man as I'd have raised her to make her own decisions and to know her own mind.

That's not the point. A girl can be well educated, thinking for herself etc but sometimes it's not enough. Really, you should live it to understand it. And there is the thing about being accepted as a girl into a new family and a different religion. It's not about the country either, trust me.

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Sorry - but that is double-standards! Your daughter would be within her rights to feel very offended by that.

No really ? I don't care if she's offended. My parents did the same thing with us. My older sister wasn't allowed to sleep with her boyfriend at home until she was married. Now she is so it's fine and she thanked my parents for this rule and never got offended. My little sister isn't allowed to bring a guy AT ALL but then she sleeps at her boyfriends. I'm covering her up lol
And me ? Well, as I'm a guy, my parents were fine with bringing my girlfriend here but only when it got serious (about 10 months)

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

No really ? I don't care if she's offended. My parents did the same thing with us. My older sister wasn't allowed to sleep with her boyfriend at home until she was married. Now she is so it's fine and she thanked my parents for this rule and never got offended. My little sister isn't allowed to bring a guy AT ALL but then she sleeps at her boyfriends. I'm covering her up lol
And me ? Well, as I'm a guy, my parents were fine with bringing my girlfriend here but only when it got serious (about 10 months)

But isn't that a little Ironic and contradictory when it's been said by others in this thread that Islam families are all about demeaning women and not giving them the same rights? What makes your family so different from a 'typical' muslim family stated in this thread?

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

No really ? I don't care if she's offended. My parents did the same thing with us. My older sister wasn't allowed to sleep with her boyfriend at home until she was married. Now she is so it's fine and she thanked my parents for this rule and never got offended. My little sister isn't allowed to bring a guy AT ALL but then she sleeps at her boyfriends. I'm covering her up lol
And me ? Well, as I'm a guy, my parents were fine with bringing my girlfriend here but only when it got serious (about 10 months)

Most young women wouldn't accept that obvious double standard today.

It is the 21st Century - and it is treating women as children. It either has to be yes for both or no for both. Anything else - is blatant sexism!

[Stacey.]

a 38 year old from wales..
the age difference is a bit too muchh :/ :/

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

But isn't that a little Ironic and contradictory when it's been said by others in this thread that Islam families are all about demeaning women and not giving them the same rights? What makes your family so different from a 'typical' muslim family stated in this thread?

lmao purely because:
1. We're not muslim.
2. Because our dad is very protective towards us.
3. We have never been forced to do something we don't want to.
4. My sisters have had bigger advantages sometimes than I had (yes, there is a balance)
5. My parents have always trusted me more because I was calmer than my sisters who were both bitches to them.

[Captain.Remy]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Most young women wouldn't accept that obvious double standard today.

It is the 21st Century - and it is treating women as children. It either has to be yes for both or no for both. Anything else - is blatant sexism!

Yeah they know that. And I just explained why in my post above. And so what if she doesn't accept ? She's under my roof, if she's not happy, she gets out. That's the rule.

Having said that, the 3 of us are very very free, we can do whatever we want. We just have to follow like 4 rules so that's why they never complained.