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Patrick · 09-02-2010, 05:01 PM

Hey People,
This is really annoying for me to ask but here goes..

Theres this girl called Cara, in my form class at school.
Since last year I started really liking her.
I think shes fit, and no one else does basically.
I talk to her 2 Sisters alot, and have a laugh with them (Shes a triplet) but im too shy to have a full on conversation with her.
She didnt know I liked her that much, until the end of last year when these prats from class told her and her sisters I fancied her.
Now our whole class knows, she and me both get like made fun of because of it, and I think thats why shes really annoyed with me as everytime I do try to talk to her she gives me a dirty look or would answer back in an angry tone.
Before everyone started making fun of her about me liking her, she use to like me.
I always try and talk to her outside and sometimes.. very rarely, she would speak back to me but then I get nervous and just like quickly end the conversation, I also have this problem of acting like a dick head in front of her and her sisters if im with my mates.
I hate it, I dont even realise im not being myself until after I walk away then I realise she probley hated the way I acted in front of everyone.
Sometimes I make her laugh when I say things, but then when other people see her talking to me or laughing with me, they laugh at her and then she wouldnt talk to me.

I really like her, and this has been like 2 Years I've knowen her and nothing has happened yet, I think she thinks I only want her just because I think shes fit, but like thats not the only reason.. its for personality and all that.
I would love to just get her by herself and tell her that im not usually a prat the way I act infront of my friends, and that I like her alot.
But shes always with her sisters and acts shy when their there.

I really want to know if she still likes me the way she use to, but I cant ask her.

I know you lot on here are abit older than me, So I was just wondering if any of you could give me advice on how to let her know I like her, or somthing like that?

Thanks Guys.

InOne · 09-02-2010, 05:03 PM

Women are crazy. That is all you need to know lol

Ninastar · 09-02-2010, 05:03 PM

go for a guy. They are better! <3

Patrick · 09-02-2010, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninastar

go for a guy. They are better! <3

No thanks.

30stone · 09-02-2010, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninastar

go for a guy. They are better! <3

Don't be silly.

Just ask her out cinema or something..
Make sure your speaking on good terms first obviously, if you talk to her and she ignores you, then the answer will most likely be a no.

But just talk to her more try to not act like a dick infront of her (i done that when i was your age its not surprising), make sure you are on friendly good terms, then ask her whenever you feel its a good time to, Maybe if one of your friends with one of hers then see if you all could go out somewhere..

Its better than telling her you like her.

Alf · 09-02-2010, 05:09 PM

give her a rose on valentines day and ask if she wants to go on a date, take her to the cinema or bowling or ice skating or for something to eat or what ever it is you young uns do nowadays.

he who hesitates, masterbates

Jessica. · 09-02-2010, 05:09 PM

If she has bebo or facebook or something you could send her a private message idk that is all I can think of if it is impossible to get her on her own.

Jack_ · 09-02-2010, 05:10 PM

Well I'm no relationship expert, but I'd suggest offering her a trip out but in a 'friends' sort of way. To the cinema etc, somewhere like that. She could invite some of her friends or you could invite some of yours (but that might make it awkward, idk). Then I'd do that a couple of times if she agrees to it, and then at some point find a time alone together, and try your best to explain how you feel.

The idea is really to try and get them to like you. Jumping in and saying 'OMG I LUV U!!!!11' is not a great idea if they don't like you back. Let her get to know you and understand what you're about, you never know, she may end up falling for you.

MissKittyFantastico · 09-02-2010, 05:11 PM

Just be brave, take the plunge, get her on her own and ask her out.

Ask to speak to her on her own for five minutes or something, and then just ask her if she wants to go do something with you at the weekend or when it suits you both, then you'll have some time away from school and other idiots together and see how it goes. If she says no then you know where you stand but if she says yes ...you got nothing to lose Patrick!

Novo · 09-02-2010, 05:11 PM

Patrick

No one else's advice will safe you here

Only your heart and Mind can lead you to true greatness

Patrick · 09-02-2010, 05:12 PM

Really good replies guys.
Thank You all

Arneldo · 09-02-2010, 05:12 PM

Firewire · 09-02-2010, 05:13 PM

I'm not one to ask at ALL.

But I agree with Ben and Jack. You should try that.

30stone · 09-02-2010, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by wannashag

he who hesitates, masterbates

LOL!

And remember, Treat her mean, keep her Keen.

hennessy · 09-02-2010, 05:14 PM

learn to smoke
smoking is cool
ergo
more handjobs than one kid could handle

Crimson Dynamo · 09-02-2010, 05:14 PM

a faint heart NEVER won a fair maiden

you are the GUY

go and speak to her. tell her how you feel. face rejection and be a MAN

if she bins you - you walk tall for trying and grow as a man

if she reciprocates then you are quids in and grow as a man

carpe diem

ILoveTRW · 09-02-2010, 05:15 PM

flash your cock at her

Jack_ · 09-02-2010, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ILoveDC

flash your cock at her

'IT'S NOT GOING TO SUCK ITSELF, IS IT?'

ILoveTRW · 09-02-2010, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_

'IT'S NOT GOING TO SUCK ITSELF, IS IT?'

Stacey. · 09-02-2010, 05:17 PM

Go for it

if you really like her, and she likes you back... it will work.
try at any possible time to get her on her own,
and your heart will tell you if its meant to be!