[WOMBAI]

Why would anyone - male or female - be stupid enough to have a one-night-stand without protection! Drink is no excuse! Anyone that does - is responsible for the consequences - male and female! This whole argument really pisses me off - when men/boys think it is acceptable to say they would do a runner! Disgusting!

[Enid]

Of course both parties are responsible. I don't think anybody has said otherwise. It's a hypothetical situation, I'm sure nobody would actually be that stupid to have a one night stand without any protection!

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Enid

Of course both parties are responsible. I don't think anybody has said otherwise. It's a hypothetical situation, I'm sure nobody would actually be that stupid to have a one night stand without any protection!

Have you not seen Jeremy Kyle?

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Jords

Have you not seen Jeremy Kyle?

Very true, very true - prime example!

How many on here are like the blokes they get on there I wonder!

[InOne]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Very true, very true - prime example!

How many on here are like the blokes they get on there I wonder!

I wouldn't say alot. Most on here seem like middle class kids who are pretty sheltered really.

[Niamh.]

Don't have un protected sex and you're unlikely to find yourself in that situation, it's not rocket science.

[Enid]

Originally Posted by Jords

Have you not seen Jeremy Kyle?

I mean on here..

[arista]

Originally Posted by Enid

What would I do if I was pregnant from a one night stand? Get rid of it. It's so easy for us women, haha.

E for Enid



She Lays It On The Line



Hot Lady.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Enid

What would I do if I was pregnant from a one night stand? Get rid of it. It's so easy for us women, haha.

That rather trivialises the situation though - as many women do not find it an easy decision! Not to mention the process of abortion is hardly pleasant!

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

That rather trivialises the situation though - as many women do not find it an easy decision! Not to mention the process of abortion is hardly pleasant!

yeah exactly.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by InOne

I wouldn't say alot. Most on here seem like middle class kids who are pretty sheltered really.

Don't know about that - many make comments that suggest they are like the lot of Kyle!

[arista]

[Niamh.]

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[InOne]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Don't know about that - many make comments that suggest they are like the lot of Kyle!

Middle Class does not mean they're intelligent xD

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by InOne

Middle Class does not mean they're intelligent xD

Oh - I know that - although many like to think they are!

[Enid]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

That rather trivialises the situation though - as many women do not find it an easy decision! Not to mention the process of abortion is hardly pleasant!

It would be easy for me, considering I don't want kids.

At the end of the day, it is the woman's choice to keep the baby or not. Men don't get a say and I feel sorry for the men that are tricked into having a kid, or want to have a baby but the woman gets rid of it anyway.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Enid

It would be easy for me, considering I don't want kids.

At the end of the day, it is the woman's choice to keep the baby or not. Men don't get a say and I feel sorry for the men that are tricked into having a kid, or want to have a baby but the woman gets rid of it anyway.

They can't be tricked if they wear protection themselves though.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Enid

It would be easy for me, considering I don't want kids.

At the end of the day, it is the woman's choice to keep the baby or not. Men don't get a say and I feel sorry for the men that are tricked into having a kid, or want to have a baby but the woman gets rid of it anyway.

Have to disagree with some of that! Men can only be tricked if they don't bother to use protection - their fault! They should have learned by now not to rely on a woman saying she is on the pill - especially on a one night stand/casual relationship! Just common sense! They don't get my sympathy on that one - as they don't deserve it!

[InOne]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Have to disagree with some of that! Men can only be tricked if they don't bother to use protection - their fault! They should have learned by now not to rely on a woman saying she is on the pill - especially on a one night stand/casual relationship! Just common sense! They don't get my sympathy on that one - as they don't deserve it!

If you're with someone who you trust and she says shes on the pill. there shouldn't be a reason not to trust her. Men aren't psychic, they assume women don't want a baby either. It's not their fault if they tricked.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by InOne

If you're with someone who you trust and she says shes on the pill. there shouldn't be a reason not to trust her. Men aren't psychic, they assume women don't want a baby either. It's not their fault if they tricked.

She did say in one night stand/casual relationship though

[Enid]

No contraception is guaranteed to work either. Yes, if you're promiscuous you should always use protection, but if you're in a more serious relationship with someone, you're gonna trust the other person.

Tricking a man into making you pregnant happens.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

She did say in one night stand/casual relationship though

Even more reason to assume she wouldn't want to get preggers lol

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by InOne

Even more reason to assume she wouldn't want to get preggers lol

Why would you assume anything about a girl you don't even know? That would be pure stupidety on your part, for all you know all she wants is to have a baby and is only sleeping around to get one!

[Niamh.]

not to mention the fact that if it a casual/one night stand thing, a condom is a must for diseases etc. the pill wont protect you from those!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Enid

No contraception is guaranteed to work either. Yes, if you're promiscuous you should always use protection, but if you're in a more serious relationship with someone, you're gonna trust the other person.

Tricking a man into making you pregnant happens.

Yes I know it does - but if a man is certain that he doesn't want a baby at that time, or with that woman - he should always use protection! If he is in a long-term relationship with a woman he trusts - but still doesn't want a baby - using protection is extra insurance that it won't happen! Not 100% guaranteed - nothing is - but it you decide to have sex - you live with the potential consequences!

Sorry - don't mean to rant - but too many people, particularly men, attempt to evade responsibility - with no thought for the child!