[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by calyman

This is a public forum, I did not "butt in". You answered with a comment which seemed to be contradicting your initial point about people having difficulty with 7 letter names (in my view an unecessary comment). I get the impression that you do not like to be questioned by others and also that your style is mildly hostile. Wouldn't it be enough for you to say that you could understand why your comment appeared condescending but that was not your intention. Not that I want to put words in your mouth.

I'm not going to post the way you want me to. And I'm not hostile at all. If you don't like the way I write, don't read.

Plus I'm not bothered if people question me, so you are wrong in that assumption about me as well.

[calyman]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

I'm not going to post the way you want me to. And I'm not hostile at all. If you don't like the way I write, don't read.

Plus I'm not bothered if people question me, so you are wrong in that assumption about me as well.

I had already said I did not want to put words in your mouth, so I'm glad you won't post the way you think I want you to. Hosility can also be passive aggressive, which is what I think you are being. I have no problem with the way you write. My obsevation was about what you wrote and your obvious reluctance to acknowledge how it may appear to others.

Finally, it's good that you are not bothered about people questioning you, though why then do you still seem so defensive and unwilling to accept that what you wrote came acrtoss as condescending, even if it wasn't meant as such, by you.

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by calyman

I had already said I did not want to put words in your mouth, so I'm glad you won't post the way you think I want you to. Hosility can also be passive aggressive, which is what I think you are being. I have no problem with the way you write. My obsevation was about what you wrote and your obvious reluctance to acknowledge how it may appear to others.

Finally, it's good that you are not bothered about people questioning you, though why then do you still seem so defensive and unwilling to accept that what you wrote came acrtoss as condescending, even if it wasn't meant as such, by you.

Fine, you think I'm passive aggressive, defensive and condescending. I get it.