[JustSkipIt]

Originally Posted by vesavius

Look, all through 'Verruca Gate' SS kept saying that she thought Ben was her friend and that wasnt the way she expected friends to act.

he kept repeating, again again and again, that he WAS her friend and he was sorry.

then he nommed her.

Call is insecurity, or whatever you like, but the submissive aggressive way she was laying into him was NOT the actions of a friend - a friend would say their piece and leave it, she kept chipping away at him for ages, just like Bea did last year.

It will take a long time for me to trust her after that because she was playing a fragile victim to make him feel bad, and she dragged it out beyond the boundaries of acceptability. And it was such a petty issue!

If I was Ben I would never feel comfortable joking with her in the future, and although I would stay on friendly terms, I would never be able relax in her company.

Who knows what she would have a go about next?

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by JustSkipIt

Call is insecurity, or whatever you like, but the submissive aggressive way she was laying into him was NOT the actions of a friend - a friend would say their piece and leave it, she kept chipping away at him for ages, just like Bea did last year.

It will take a long time for me to trust her after that because she was playing a fragile victim to make him feel bad, and she dragged it out beyond the boundaries of acceptability. And it was such a petty issue!

If I was Ben I would never feel comfortable joking with her in the future, and although I would stay on friendly terms, I would never be able relax in her company.

Who knows what she would have a go about next?

I agree in a lot of ways. I am no fan of SS either tbh.

SS's issues though have nothing to do with Ben choosing to betray her after leading her to belive he was her ally and friend.