[DrunkerThanMoses]

Originally Posted by HBB1508

Fair point I can't say much as I haven't seen it I guess all I can say is that they have all bitched about each other but personally I don't find Ben's bitching as cutting as some of the others and he makes me laugh. I guess as we get to see them all talking about each other as onlookers it probably seems far worse than it actually is in reality.

I agree they all bitch, its what people do in life, my main problem with ben bitching know, like I said in the other thread, hes never confrounts people, while the others do. I find this very cowardly in a person, I mean Ill be honest I was a bitchy person to someone years ago, who suprosely is one of my main friends now, but I told her I was horrible behind her back because I felt wrong doing (but i was 15/16 at the time), I dont do it now, and im 19, and ben is suppose to be 30. Maybe its the way he views life I have no idea?

[HBB1508]

Originally Posted by DrunkerThanMoses

I agree they all bitch, its what people do in life, my main problem with ben bitching know, like I said in the other thread, hes never confrounts people, while the others do. I find this very cowardly in a person, I mean Ill be honest I was a bitchy person to someone years ago, who suprosely is one of my main friends now, but I told her I was horrible behind her back because I felt wrong doing (but i was 15/16 at the time), I dont do it now, and im 19, and ben is suppose to be 30. Maybe its the way he views life I have no idea?

I think a lot of it may have something to do with Ben's boarding school days, when you are stuck with the same people day in and day out they do get on your wick and you do end up bitching about them because we are all different. That's probably why he does it in the house as it's similar to a previous environment he has been used to. I don't condone it and I can't as I am a bitch at times but I try and do it in a funny light way to get things off my chest rather than to hurt anyone else, it doesn't make it better but I don't mean things in a malicious way and I think this is what Ben is like.