[joeysteele]

Its called discretion fingers, I will explain, discretion is firstly deciding if you want to interact with someone verbally,it is at your discretion if you choose to do that.secondly discretion is respecting and keeping to yourself waht someone else may have done or said with and/or to you.
Had BEN in response to JJames question answered ohhe said and then gone on to say something that Mario had not said to him then he would have then BEEN LYING, as it was he decided to tell JJames wisely nothing about the conversation so exercised his right to at his discretion, reveal what MARIO had said or keep it to himself, he chose the latter(keep it to himslef) and most decent friends do choose that side of discretion when a friend tells them something. Hope that helps you understand being discreet as opposed to lying,Watch JJames you will soon learn what regular and perfect lying is.