[Kerry]

Youtube video

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by Appearance_Of_A_Junky

Do you maybe think that we know we need human contact at times, and this gives us the access to it without having to deal with the s*** thats going on elsewhere.

I like company but don't want it all the time, this gives me that opportunity to still be social but completely on my terms.

Still, at work Im more one of the popular people, happier person, and one of the more social. It could just be that im actually a people person but that just can't stand people.

I'm not too fond of people either.

And yep, I think that a forum is a great way to connect. And for me it takes away the anxiety and self doubt I have when chatting people in real lfe, except for family and a couple of other people, I tend not to speak many words, sometimes I could count the amount on my fingers and toes.

So yea it's also on our terms, and plus I feel like I have way more power than like in real life.

[Colbert-Bump]

Originally Posted by Jords

I love that song.

It's Kylie's best song but this one is pretty cool aswell.

Youtube video

[Kerry]

Dunno what to listen to now

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by Colbert-Bump

Morning, my favourite Goth creature of the night.

Originally Posted by Jaye

Figured YouTube yet?

The first bunch of Embed code works with [yt][/yt] and the second doesn't.The second bit of code is what youtube gives you now if you click the Embed button

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It will only take a moment to spot what to take out. I'm just a bit tired at the moment.

Anyway here is what song that is:

Youtube video

[Kerry]

Keep going with the URL Claudia. Just delete it back

[BristolRovers]

ohai

[Kerry]

My heads too tired to explain it

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by Jaye

Keep going with the URL Claudia. Just delete it back

Yea, but I want my purple bar at the bottom

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by BristolRovers

ohai

hiya BR

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

Yea, but I want my purple bar at the bottom

Oh I have no idea how you get colours Never even looked

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by BristolRovers

ohai

[Appearance_Of_A_Junky]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

I'm not too fond of people either.

And yep, I think that a forum is a great way to connect. And for me it takes away the anxiety and self doubt I have when chatting people in real lfe, except for family and a couple of other people, I tend not to speak many words, sometimes I could count the amount on my fingers and toes.

So yea it's also on our terms, and plus I feel like I have way more power than like in real life.

I know what you mean, I used to be the one that would sit in a group of friends and say very little, and next to nothing if there was someone new with us. The only thing I had going for me was my sense of humour, but I wasn't really the funny one. I ended up telling myself that I wanted to make the effort and not be like it, but never could. I used to drink in a crappy pub with a few friends and ended up one day getting a bar job, after a year I moved to another pub, and started gaining confidence in dealing with people, as hell I was having to do it all the time. I started training to do more than just bar work, then I was on the relief circuit and running other peoples pubs when they went on holiday (like a trial sort of thing). But the managers would then often blame you for their mistakes and try to clean their image when they returned. One accused me of stealing several barrels worth of beer, they said customers had been getting free drinks and putting me in a bad light. Little did they know that they had been poured down the drain by a company auditor. I had enough quit, but felt better within myself, one night whilst off my face I booked some airflights and ended up travelling on my own around europe for a while, doing some things which could have ended badly (I took some things with me on my trip, which I took when on my trip). I came back with a newer look on things and made an effort. Ended up running the pub near my home where I had worked for four years. Had a bizarre but fun year, but then it all broke apart, things went bad.

Now, I just realise that I prefer my own company, I still go out occasionally, to see friends. But in truth, I prefer being anti-social. I get nothing out of the need to be social, I don't feel the need to be around people, or to have people around me.

It just took me 28 years to work that out.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Appearance_Of_A_Junky

Don't worry about it, I don't mind spoilers.

I know what you mean about the likeabilty of them though, the Brigade and the leader (Im not good with names) annoy me, especially the ones that think they are in the Mafia because they are from New Jersey. Excluding the gay guy and I think one other (In forget) most of the men seem to be macho idiots. So I can't stand them either, though I don't mind Matt (the brains) - ha I laughed at the names, that was so lame. Miaow Miaow - hahah tough name, should of just called himself Top Cat, or TC.

The voting thing I would hate, competitions can be baised to help people - like the first hot dog task, it was obvious the HOH would be male.

I still think that registering a membership, limiting it to so many per house, and then each membership gives you a numer of votes would make ours fine. Its the mass voting which causes the problems, along with the fiddling of nomination procedure.

I really really dont like The Brigade, find them very irritating and not very good players ('cept Matt, but hes too aragant) - just getting by because of their numbers and because the others are too dumb! The gay guy Ragan, hes alright, just recently Ive gone off him slightly along with Britney, theyre funny but I think a bit too bitchy for my liking. Andrew and Brendon are decent guys out of them I thought. LOL, Top Cat is a cool name, Enzo aint cool he can stick as Miaow Miaow.

The tasks can seem biased, but I guess its the same situation as the Save and Replace task we have. Though I think our Big Brother really does engineer it to who they would like to save the most.

I think that would make a big difference to the results, and would make it a lot fairer and not taken over by the teeny boppers! Would it be hard to set up? Mobile phones would be a problem though, unless they cant be used somehow.

[Colbert-Bump]

Let's just chill and listen to abit of Phoenix.

Youtube video

[Appearance_Of_A_Junky]

A great song for hearing at this time of the day

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJMNnExg9X4

Im not even going to try and embed it, sorry. If you are willing to click a link, could be a song you like, (or one you dont)

[Kerry]

Right, think I'm gonna have a drink and then bed

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Colbert-Bump

It's Kylie's best song but this one is pretty cool aswell.

Youtube video

WOW is a good song too.

Her new single is brilliant -

Youtube video

[Colbert-Bump]

Originally Posted by Appearance_Of_A_Junky

I don't feel the need to be around people, or to have people around me.

You sound like me mate, I swear people in my family think I'm a recluse.

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Appearance_Of_A_Junky

A great song for hearing at this time of the day

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJMNnExg9X4

Im not even going to try and embed it, sorry. If you are willing to click a link, could be a song you like, (or one you dont)

I usually post links. Can't be arsed faffing about. Just wanted to prove something to myself

[setanta]

Originally Posted by Appearance_Of_A_Junky

I know what you mean, I used to be the one that would sit in a group of friends and say very little, and next to nothing if there was someone new with us. The only thing I had going for me was my sense of humour, but I wasn't really the funny one. I ended up telling myself that I wanted to make the effort and not be like it, but never could. I used to drink in a crappy pub with a few friends and ended up one day getting a bar job, after a year I moved to another pub, and started gaining confidence in dealing with people, as hell I was having to do it all the time. I started training to do more than just bar work, then I was on the relief circuit and running other peoples pubs when they went on holiday (like a trial sort of thing). But the managers would then often blame you for their mistakes and try to clean their image when they returned. One accused me of stealing several barrels worth of beer, they said customers had been getting free drinks and putting me in a bad light. Little did they know that they had been poured down the drain by a company auditor. I had enough quit, but felt better within myself, one night whilst off my face I booked some airflights and ended up travelling on my own around europe for a while, doing some things which could have ended badly (I took some things with me on my trip, which I took when on my trip). I came back with a newer look on things and made an effort. Ended up running the pub near my home where I had worked for four years. Had a bizarre but fun year, but then it all broke apart, things went bad.

Now, I just realise that I prefer my own company, I still go out occasionally, to see friends. But in truth, I prefer being anti-social. I get nothing out of the need to be social, I don't feel the need to be around people, or to have people around me.

It just took me 28 years to work that out.

You're an interesting person, just like Enid said to me. Glad to make your aquaintence kind sir.

[Appearance_Of_A_Junky]

Originally Posted by Jords

I really really dont like The Brigade, find them very irritating and not very good players ('cept Matt, but hes too aragant) - just getting by because of their numbers and because the others are too dumb! The gay guy Ragan, hes alright, just recently Ive gone off him slightly along with Britney, theyre funny but I think a bit too bitchy for my liking. Andrew and Brendon are decent guys out of them I thought. LOL, Top Cat is a cool name, Enzo aint cool he can stick as Miaow Miaow.

The tasks can seem biased, but I guess its the same situation as the Save and Replace task we have. Though I think our Big Brother really does engineer it to who they would like to save the most.

I think that would make a big difference to the results, and would make it a lot fairer and not taken over by the teeny boppers! Would it be hard to set up? Mobile phones would be a problem though, unless they cant be used somehow.

It wouldnt cost much to set up at all (well I guess without knowing just guessing). It could easily be done though. If its a membership per person just give them two numbers, say their birthdate 160980 and a membership number 123456 which they can enter on touchtone phones then they could have the vote then, providing the numbers match. A bit like when you phone your bank and have to enter everything in. They could charge for membership as well Ł8 to vote for the whole season. reduce it as the weeks go on for latecomers to the show.

In a vote to save they could even enable it to have more than one vote that week. The technology is out there, it can't be that hard.

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by Appearance_Of_A_Junky

I know what you mean, I used to be the one that would sit in a group of friends and say very little, and next to nothing if there was someone new with us. The only thing I had going for me was my sense of humour, but I wasn't really the funny one. I ended up telling myself that I wanted to make the effort and not be like it, but never could. I used to drink in a crappy pub with a few friends and ended up one day getting a bar job, after a year I moved to another pub, and started gaining confidence in dealing with people, as hell I was having to do it all the time. I started training to do more than just bar work, then I was on the relief circuit and running other peoples pubs when they went on holiday (like a trial sort of thing). But the managers would then often blame you for their mistakes and try to clean their image when they returned. One accused me of stealing several barrels worth of beer, they said customers had been getting free drinks and putting me in a bad light. Little did they know that they had been poured down the drain by a company auditor. I had enough quit, but felt better within myself, one night whilst off my face I booked some airflights and ended up travelling on my own around europe for a while, doing some things which could have ended badly (I took some things with me on my trip, which I took when on my trip). I came back with a newer look on things and made an effort. Ended up running the pub near my home where I had worked for four years. Had a bizarre but fun year, but then it all broke apart, things went bad.

Now, I just realise that I prefer my own company, I still go out occasionally, to see friends. But in truth, I prefer being anti-social. I get nothing out of the need to be social, I don't feel the need to be around people, or to have people around me.

It just took me 28 years to work that out.

Wow you have lived, that is cool, I want to do that, well the travelling part, I had plans for this summer but they fell through, my mom didn't allow it, but I guess I'm in no hurry, next summer will be just as good. So I decided to read more this summer instead, so at least my mind could wander since I couldn't. And BB is keeping me more than entertained.

[Jords]

'I don't feel the need to be around people, or to have people around me.'

I can take or leave being around people also, I used to love socializing but things change and now I really cant be asked with people unless they are decent. Parents always nag me to go out and Im like 'Nah Im good'.

I think Ive only recently realised I enjoy my own company, I used to be quite disappointed that I wasnt 'popular' and had loads of friends to hang with, sometimes I still think bleh but now Im more happy with myself.

[Kerry]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AQ3F...eature=related