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pices · 06-11-2010, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

good, it's because I have seen a lot of his fans claim he's 100% straight and not interested in men too many times that I wondered why

Well those fans may just be saying it because its what Ben himself says, why would anyone sign up for your theories.

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid*

I'm beginning to wonder if there is a certain amount of 'projection' going on - as the matter of Ben's sexuality for some, appears to be verging on obsessive. I am being serious. I'm also completely at a loss as to why it would matter so much ...unless it was Mario themself posting. It's almost as though it's being taken very personally.

I thought my user name would give you a clue I'm female!

Pyramid* · 06-11-2010, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by pices

Exactly that Mids, can I call you Mids

It is an obsession as though someone is trying hard to justify their behaviour.

Mids is cool. Better than being called an asswipe !!

Something very odd going on here. It's almost as though Mario himself were posting, he who doth protest too much and all that. For a person who is not Mario to be so utterly focused on why Ben would flirt but not have sex, why Ben would discuss threesomes (many adults not only discuss having threesomes, they also partake, and still it does not make them gay) and be so totally obsessed with Ben and his sexual preferences - it's quite surreal.

pices · 06-11-2010, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

you have lost me

Good job I am on the ball then.

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by pices

Well those fans may just be saying it because its what Ben himself says, why would anyone sign up for your theories.

But later ben rejected that, it seems some fans only watched the highlight shows
there are video clips out there somewhere that can show you some conversations ben had on live feed

pices · 06-11-2010, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Mids is cool. Better than being called an asswipe !!

Something very odd going on here. It's almost as though Mario himself were posting, he who doth protest too much and all that. For a person who is not Mario to be so utterly focused on why Ben would flirt but not have sex, why Ben would discuss threesomes (many adults not only discuss having threesomes, they also partake, and still it does not make them gay) and be so totally obsessed with Ben and his sexual preferences - it's quite surreal.

I think it a little disturbing tbh, a wee bit stalkerish if thats whats happening.

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by pices

I think it a little disturbing tbh, a wee bit stalkerish if thats whats happening.

ah ok I get it! It's some tactic sorry it's not working

pices · 06-11-2010, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

But later ben rejected that, it seems some fans only watched the highlight shows
there are video clips out there somewhere that can show you some conversations ben had on live feed

I have no need thanks, I watched far too much livefeed, Why can you not accept that Ben is straight?
Why does it worry you?

Pyramid* · 06-11-2010, 05:23 PM

*clears throat and addresses thread*

My username is Pyramid*

This does not mean I am Egyptian.

This does not mean that I am thousands of years old.

This does not mean that I hold secrets beyond the realms of time.

This does not mean that I am an inanimate object.

This does not mean I have dead people buried within me.

Ben loves all things Egyptian btw. Wee bit of information for you all. He also did reporting during one of the Middle Eastern Wars.

Angus · 06-11-2010, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

no I'm not homophobic how did you reach that conclusion?

Why are you so obsessed with Ben's sexuality? Are all gay men supposed to be attracted to each other or are they like other human beings who have preferences, types etc? You seem to think that if Ben were gay he SHOULD have welcomed Mario's advances? Does he not have the right to choose who he wishes to be with? Your assumption seems to be that gay people should get with each other simply because they are gay. That to me is a kind of inverted homophobia since it demonstrates quite clearly you think gay people are different from straight people emotionally and morally, ie anyone will do!

Pyramid* · 06-11-2010, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58

Why are you so obsessed with Ben's sexuality? Are all gay men supposed to be attracted to each other or are they like other human beings who have preferences, types etc? You seem to think that if Ben were gay he SHOULD have welcomed Mario's advances? Does he not have the right to choose who he wishes to be with? Your assumption seems to be that gay people should get with each other simply because they are gay. That to me is a kind of inverted homophobia since it demonstrates quite clearly you think gay people are different from straight people emotionally and morally, ie anyone will do!

Angus, may I ask a question. Are you a type of Highland Cattle?

Just wondering.

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by pices

I have no need thanks, I watched far too much livefeed, Why can you not accept that Ben is straight?
Why does it worry you?

why can't you accept he's not?

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58

Why are you so obsessed with Ben's sexuality? Are all gay men supposed to be attracted to each other or are they like other human beings who have preferences, types etc? You seem to think that if Ben were gay he SHOULD have welcomed Mario's advances? Does he not have the right to choose who he wishes to be with? Your assumption seems to be that gay people should get with each other simply because they are gay. That to me is a kind of inverted homophobia since it demonstrates quite clearly you think gay people are different from straight people emotionally and morally, ie anyone will do!

no where did I say that? I do not think that ben should have accepted marios advances, i am saying ben made some of his own toward mario

Angus · 06-11-2010, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

good, it's because I have seen a lot of his fans claim he's 100% straight and not interested in men too many times that I wondered why

Why would you waste one moment of your life wondering such a thing?

How sad.

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58

Why would you waste one moment of your life wondering such a thing?

How sad.

why are any of us here?

Pyramid* · 06-11-2010, 05:31 PM

Anyone care for alittle song to break the tedium???

WE DONT CARE IF BEN IS GAY ... OR NOT.

*Dances round the thread, bopping like a good 'un*

Stops dancing manically as thinks Ben would not approve.

pices · 06-11-2010, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

why can't you accept he's not?

If he was gay I would happily accept it, but he says he is not, the people who he is closest to say he is not, why should i think any different.
And why dont you answer my questions.

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Anyone care for a little song to break the tedium???

WE DONT CARE IF BEN IS GAY ... OR NOT.

*Dances round the thread, bopping like a good 'un*

Stops dancing manically as thinks Ben would not approve.

I'm sure he would

lauraC · 06-11-2010, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by pices

If he was gay I would happily accept it, but he says he is not, the people who he is closest to say he is not, why should i think any different.
And why dont you answer my questions.

I didn't say he was gay, I said why can't you accept he's not 100% straight

Sorry which questions?

pices · 06-11-2010, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

I didn't say he was gay, I said why can't you accept he's not 100% straight

Same goes for Bi, why not answer questions yourself instead of always answering with another question.

Angus · 06-11-2010, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

no where did I say that? I do not think that ben should have accepted marios advances, i am saying ben made some of his own toward mario

I watched live feed and all I saw was Ben, who is a very touchy feely guy with both sexes, being his usual flirtatious self. If Mario is so inept and inexperienced (which I doubt at age 28) as to be unable to "read" the signals correctly, then that isn't Ben's fault. As soon as Ben realised Mario was reading way too much into his flirtatiousness he put him straight, and that's when Mario turned on him. So spare me the argument that Mario is some poor innocent enveigled into a misconceived attraction, because I get the distinct impression that he's been around the block several times, in fact he's somewhat of a minger.

Pyramid* · 06-11-2010, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by pices

If he was gay I would happily accept it, but he says he is not, the people who he is closest to say he is not, why should i think any different.
And why dont you answer my questions.

It would give the game away.

*continues bopping around the thread* Dead or Alive were fab.

Actually, this could be Mario's song to Ben !! LOL

pices · 06-11-2010, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by lauraC

no where did I say that? I do not think that ben should have accepted marios advances, i am saying ben made some of his own toward mario

Ben never made any advances to Mario, he was visibly disgusted by even the thought of that kind of relationship with Mario.

Pyramid* · 06-11-2010, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58

I watched live feed and all I saw was Ben, who is a very touchy feely guy with both sexes, being his usual flirtatious self. If Mario is so inept and inexperienced (which I doubt at age 28) as to be unable to "read" the signals correctly, then that isn't Ben's fault. As soon as Ben realised Mario was reading way too much into his flirtatiousness he put him straight, and that's when Mario turned on him. So spare me the argument that Mario is some poor innocent enveigled into a misconceived attraction, because I get the distinct impression that he's been around the block several times, in fact he's somewhat of a minger.

Ben is very tactile. Mario 'reads' tactile as an open invitation: or foreplay.

That is Mario's problem. Not Ben's.