[lauraC]

I personally think Dave, but the obvious attraction to John James and Mario was there which resulted in massive bitching sessions because of suppressed desire

[Ultra Violet]

Originally Posted by lauraC

I personally think Dave, but the obvious attraction to John James and Mario was there which resulted in massive bitching sessions because of suppressed desire

As I know that Ben is straight (in a way that the other people posting here do not) I suggest that anyone who likes Ben and has his interests at heart DOES NOT POST ANYTHING IN THIS THREAD and leaves it simply to the imaginations of those that have no love for him to run riot ...

It might be sick ... but it is definitely not worth dignifying with any kind of a response ... and that will be far more satisfying ...

[lauraC]

ok I hope Ultra Violet doesn't mind me bringing this over from the other thread so I can answer here:

Ultra Violet said:
But I have seen Ben when he fancies someone ... I know what that looks like ... and Ben certainly did not fancy either Mario OR John James ... though I saw the 'look' on his face in the first week when he had a small crush on Rachael White ... and she is very much his type of woman (when it comes to looks) ... if she were older and more knowledgeable in the ways of the world she might have been very perfect for him ... in a different situation

I missed Ben because all the lightness and brightness in the house was extinguished when he went up the stairs

I think he went for Rachel because he knew she wouldn't reciprocate his attention or pretend attention and that would take the heat off all the questions about his sexuality, I think if she had reciprocated his advances we would have seen him back off as quickly as he did with Rachel 2

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by Ultra Violet

As I know that Ben is straight (in a way that the other people posting here do not) I suggest that anyone who likes Ben and has his interests at heart DOES NOT POST ANYTHING IN THIS THREAD and leaves it simply to the imaginations of those that have no love for him to run riot ...

It might be sick ... but it is definitely not worth dignifying with any kind of a response ... and that will be far more satisfying ...

If you know ben is straight why did he claim on big brother to be bisexual? He even said he could settle down a lifetime with a man who would look after him. That's long term

[lauraC]

I was in two minds about ben and his sexuality, I respected the fact that he didn't want to talk about it, although being on big brother does force the issue, you are asked all about your sexual preference and past etc during the interviews etc so it's difficult to hide, but sometimes ben would be very open about his feelings and other times very guarded and closed and it made me a little sad that he thought his career would be ruined because he likes men and made me wonder if this was true or just in his own mind.

[joeysteele]

Not a single one of them, he has far too much sense for that.

[honeydew]

Originally Posted by lauraC

If you know ben is straight why did he claim on big brother to be bisexual? He even said he could settle down a lifetime with a man who would look after him. That's long term

EVERY post of yours has some relevence to sex, you seem to be obessed by it
I have noticed, and probaly half the people in here.

SEX, SEX is all you seem to harp on about . Get life ,get a Grip, GET SEX..

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Not a single one of them, he has far too much sense for that.

he was very close to Dave though, even got jealous when he mentioned his anniversary and the possibility of his wife coming into the house for the evening , ben admitted to being jealous of that

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by honeydew

EVERY post of yours has some relevence to sex, you seem to be obessed by it
I have noticed, and probaly half the people in here.

SEX, SEX is all you seem to harp on about . Get life ,get a Grip, GET SEX..

lol
I suppose I'm as baffled by Ultra Violets protesting that he's straight as much as ben's initial denial to liking men and then when he eventually seemed to come out the closet on big brother his friends seem to have stuffed him back in there.

[Stacey.]

Mario.

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by Stacey.

Mario.

to be honest i think with mario it was more envy that he was so open and happy with his sexuality i don't think he fancied him, i think he definately fancied john james and he had an emotional bond to Dave which was sometimes fatherly, but giving his(possible) pampers kink that might but something he's into, older men I'm in no way reffering to anything paternal!

[pices]

Originally Posted by honeydew

EVERY post of yours has some relevence to sex, you seem to be obessed by it
I have noticed, and probaly half the people in here.

SEX, SEX is all you seem to harp on about . Get life ,get a Grip, GET SEX..

I wouldent worry about it too much, this poster is SEX obsessed, who does it remind you of

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by lauraC

to be honest i think with mario it was more envy that he was so open and happy with his sexuality i don't think he fancied him, i think he definately fancied john james and he had an emotional bond to Dave which was sometimes fatherly, but giving his(possible) pampers kink that might but something he's into, older men I'm in no way reffering to anything paternal!

Well tbh I don't think Ben fancied any of John-James, Dave or Mario Just if it had to be one, he was really close to Mario at the start of the show, and there sort of always seemed to be something there between them.

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by Stacey.

Well tbh I don't think Ben fancied any of John-James, Dave or Mario Just if it had to be one, he was really close to Mario at the start of the show, and there sort of always seemed to be something there between them.

do you rmember how close ben and dave were? he lay on top of his in the hut , like proper laid on top of him, and then another time used his groin as a cushion, even davina asked was that normal and he said no

[honeydew]

Originally Posted by pices

I wouldent worry about it too much, this poster is SEX obsessed, who does it remind you of

MARIO

[Vodka Drinka]

He didn't fancy any of them

[kim]

I've never seen any straight man touch, lay on and kiss anyone like Ben behaved with Mario and Dave. Ben must be the only one, but then he is very different to anyone I've ever met too

[Vodka Drinka]

Originally Posted by kim

I've never seen any straight man touch, lay on and kiss anyone like Ben behaved with Mario and Dave. Ben must be the only one, but then he is very different to anyone I've ever met too

You've met Ben? You kept that one quiet I've got say? What was it like spending eight weeks with him Mari...I mean, Kim?

[Angus]

Hey Ben fans, just popped into this thread to say "IGNORE the troll" - If you don't feed 'em they get bored and slither off.

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by Vodka Drinka

You've met Ben? You kept that one quiet I've got say? What was it like spending eight weeks with him Mari...I mean, Kim?

I'm confused I thought I was supposed to be him lol

[Malza]

I think the only person Ben really fancied was himself, he was so obsessed in talking about how things he did and say may look on the outside.

Every time someone came to Ben to talk about any topic, it took only minutes until he had turned the conversation into a chat about him, his problems, his look, his own little world...

The only time he talked about others, was when he was bitching, or if he thought he could impress any of the girls with his knowledge about politics.

Not really sure if he's really that clever in general. He was for sure very educated when it came to politics, but to be honest, Mario was able to talk about all sort of general knowledge (not only talk about it, he also could explain everything... History, Nuclear fission, Planets, religion and so on).
But Ben was always just specialised on political conversations.

[kim]

Originally Posted by Vodka Drinka

You've met Ben? You kept that one quiet I've got say? What was it like spending eight weeks with him Mari...I mean, Kim?

It was only brief not 8 weeks. I've met all the BB11 blokes

[lauraC]

Originally Posted by kim

I've never seen any straight man touch, lay on and kiss anyone like Ben behaved with Mario and Dave. Ben must be the only one, but then he is very different to anyone I've ever met too

but ben admitted he wasn't straight, he admitted to liking men and woman , it's only some of his fans and his "friend" who won't accept that sadly

[kim]

Originally Posted by lauraC

but ben admitted he wasn't straight, he admitted to liking men and woman , it's only some of his fans and his "friend" who won't accept that sadly

I do remember Ben's comment one time, which is below as written by someone on DS at the time

transcription:

Ben: "I think life is complex I think we make huge mistakes by trying to put people into boxes, that's why I'm being honest , who knows what the future can have in store but one thing is for sure I'm not interested in Mario's penis."

Dave : "would you like to settle down Ben?"

Ben: "I'd like to get married to a beautiful Lebanese girl, I would like to marry maybe in 10 years and have children and all that kind of stuff, that's what I would love to do but I'm not so arrogant as to say for sure that will happen, I have got to find the means for providing for a family and a means of a sustainable career and if that happens it happens, if I remain a bachelor I will have lots of lovely friends and lots of naughty events and if I have a close male friend who loves and looks after me then that's fine too."

[lauraC]

ah lovely charlie!!!
I miss him loads, wish he was into twitter