[joeysteele]

I clearly cannot say for certain that Amy didn't want help, from the outside looking in, I said I felt personally that 'maybe' she didn't want help,I also said in the last paragraph Amy was 'possibly' one of the people who didn't want help either.

Zippy, you are clearly a fan of Amy and so you will feel a greater loss,I wasn't a great fan but do like a lot of her songs.I also accept what you say as to black and white, things are rarely black or white,there are so many grey areas in all things.

I would though dare bet that before Amy herself got into the mess that is hard drugs and uncontrolled drinking,she would likely have said to people on that path when she saw them, for them not to press the self destruct button and continue on that road.