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BB12 Big Brother 12 started on Thursday Sept 9th 2011 on Channel 5 for a 9-week run. The series was won by Aaron. Tell us what you thought about the housemates and series in this forum.
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Old 24-10-2011, 02:13 PM #1
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Question So is Tom gay or not?
He said on his VT he prefered to get intimate with girls ? Could we all be missing the real big brother romance him and Alex?
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He is bisexual, and Alex has said she fancies nobody in that house, so I don't think there is a romance there, just a very close friendship.
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He is bisexual. When he wants sex, he has to buy it.
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I don't know, I am shocked by Tom's alleged attraction to females. He just seems gay. No offence to bi people but I will admit I am suspicious about bisexual people (male and female) and reckon they all prefer men. But Tom knows what he likes so I won't question it.
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Bi now, gay later!
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He is bisexual. When he wants sex, he has to buy it.
Oh, Jay can earn a few quid whilst in the house then!
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So he says he is bi sexual so he doesnt have to admit to being gay? oh bless him thats sweet in a wierd kind off way.
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Oh, Jay can earn a few quid whilst in the house then!
is Jay bi? I thought he might be when he went in at first
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as an old Bi (from college) friend of mine once said, he "could go to a nightclub and always go home with someone"

yes, yes - he was indeed a dirty so and so back then
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Oh, Jay can earn a few quid whilst in the house then!
Yeah, I'm not fan of Tom, but I think he'd have to be pretty desperate...
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So he says he is bi sexual so he doesnt have to admit to being gay? oh bless him thats sweet in a wierd kind off way.
I strongly suspect Tom said he's bi so that he gets in the house over the other gay male applicants - claiming he's attracted to women means the producers think he has more showmance ie female possiblities. They put NO other 'out' males with homosexual leanings so they are just 'ticking a diversity' LGBT box. It's as if C5 are saying Tom can still have a BB romance...with a woman, just not a guy.

When I saw Jays' VT I really really really wanted him to be gay, just to be a different kind of gay man. I might have even forgiven Jay's 'freezer' indiscretion had he been gay or bi.
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He does seem have that really, nasty bitchy streak that often appears in gay men
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He's as gay as a window. He's probably using bi-sexual as a way of breaking it to his family. He's also got a younger brother at school, which can't be easy. He won't end up with a woman in the long term.
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Tom is in the category I call "Supposedly Bisexual". I.e. 100% gay but wants to keep a foot in the other camp for appearance sake. (Oops... I said camp! )

I have an acquaintance who is also in that category. Unfortunately he was was kidding himself as well as other people and he ended up marrying a woman. His divorce came through a week ago!

Tom is probably too camp for many gay men - never mind women!
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Can't really imagine Tom having a gf or having a good time with one. When they were discussing new housemates with Maisy and Jay he said 'wish they'd bring in a hot guy'. Why not a hot woman?!
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What was he doing nibbling Alexs ear lobe then the other day? I cant think of one friend of mine who has ever done that to me , mabe my ears arent nibbleable? nibbley? nibble worthy? maybe my ears arent attractive?
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is Jay bi? I thought he might be when he went in at first


No. he just aint very fussy !
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He's as gay as a window. He's probably using bi-sexual as a way of breaking it to his family. He's also got a younger brother at school, which can't be easy. He won't end up with a woman in the long term.


....is busy wondering what a GAY WINDOW IS ???? lol...please enlighten.....
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....is busy wondering what a GAY WINDOW IS ???? lol...please enlighten.....
Isnt it , you can see right through it ? His gayness that is
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He's less gay than Aaron imo. But they're both gay i think. Tom at least admits being bisexual though, which is half way there. lol Certainly more honest than Aaron.

I think tom is genuinely confused about his sexuality, and is just experimenting right now. Aaron i think is just a liar.
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KISTAR.....i thank you for clearning up that very tricky matter for me lol....will be much more aware now of what to look out for lol....
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Yeah, I'm not fan of Tom, but I think he'd have to be pretty desperate...
That's true, Jay would have to be pretty desperate
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He's less gay than Aaron imo. But they're both gay i think. Tom at least admits being bisexual though, which is half way there. lol Certainly more honest than Aaron.

I think tom is genuinely confused about his sexuality, and is just experimenting right now. Aaron i think is just a liar.
You think the resident lothario is gay?
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KISTAR.....i thank you for clearning up that very tricky matter for me lol....will be much more aware now of what to look out for lol....
You are welcome (Lets hope I got it right)
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