[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by vesavius

I meant here we go again that the complaints flood in over something or other minor and fleeting in general, not that you were a serial complainer

All the show being forced to make an apology will do is get BB neuterd and drag the comment's life span out further, maybe damaging Aaron even worse TBH.

Aaron, of all people, knew what he was getting in to. He is a long time student of the show and obviously fully expected this to potentiolly happen.

I find your comment pretty hypocritical.

So, surely then if Aaron knew what he was getting into going on BB then Faye knew what she was getting into by not only being on BB and getting into a relationship in the BB house where things will be strained, but also for having your sister coming in and being a complete controlling bitch and mother hanging your dirty washing on the line for all to see... because don't forget Faye has been a fan and tried to be a BB contestant a couple of times herself before.

That vile women was wrong to compare Aaron as an abusive husband on BBOTS. Same as you are wrong to say he is an emotional bully.

At times, yes both he and Faye are as bad as each other. However I find Faye far more of an emotionally manipulative person than Aaron (if you want to go down that route). She's patronising and condescending to him, talks **** about him behind his back, laughs in his face, wants him one minute then doesn't the next, bitches constantly at him... gool lord I could go on forever.

I expect on the outside world without the glare of the cameras, the other HM's chiming in and Faye's family butting in and telling her how to think, feel and act they would be able to sort out their problems pretty quickly or just simply call it quits and spllit up for good. However, they're in the BB house so they don't have that luxury yet.

[Beso]

My dad was abusive and he had a lot of the same traits as Aaron...I'm not saying Aaron is though.

[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by vesavius

Let me explain...

Faye HAS been an emotional wreck since day 1, thats true.

Aaron, as an emotional bully, recognised that and chose to take advantage of it, exasperating her mental state to feed into his need for an 'interesting' realtionship in the house. As a grown man, and an intelligent one at that who everyone tells me is a 'master game player', I can only assume it was intentional.

But then I said all this when I said,"But still, whatever Faye is that doesn't change what Aaron is. She is obviously emotionally immature, insecure, and volatile and Aaron as a mature man should have seen that and not chosen her as his tactical fauxmance, ethically speaking"

I have never said 'Faye was perfect before she met Aaron'. Aaron hasn't made Faye what she is, but he sure as hell is taking advantage of it.



Game playing aside, passive aggressive bully types are commonly drawn to Faye's personality type, simply because they deliver what they are themselves looking for... Reaction, chaos, and, ultimately, control.

You're having a laugh aren't you???

Aaron didn't even speak to Faye in the first week. She then won a romantic dinner for two and when she found out that Jay had his sights set on Louise she opted to take Aaron.

After the the dinner nothing much happened except her flirting with Aaron whenever the booze was flowing or she felt 'in the mood'.

Aaron then had a very brief snog with Maisy and suddenly she's was all heart broken and all this "how could he do this when he knows I have feelings for him" crap spurted out of her mouth.

She's lead him up the garden path since then - wanting him one minute, telling him they should be friends the next, flirting with other male HMs in front of him, telling him never to speak to her again, believing her sister and Jay and Anton before she believed Aaron, bitching behind his back, etc etc etc.

[rusticgal]

I have said this on another post but as I started this one I will say it on here.

I love BB...I love wathing people interact and I love coming on this forum. Having supported Aaron from day one its hard to hear such negativity from the spin off programme about him. He has been the subject of most of the drama and he has been hugely entertaining and therefore he will get discussed more than the others. I dont watch much of BOTS because I find much of it tiresome.... HOWEVER...you simply cant have someone make such incriminating comments like that on National TV. Aaronns behaviour in the house has been HUGELY exaggerated its almost laughable... he is just a sweet guy with maybe a few insecurities and maybe too honest for his own good. No one is perfect.

I just think if these threads get read by Channel 5 they will see and recognise that allowing those comments to be voiced by a gobby wannabe was totally unacceptable.THEY WERE DEROGATORY... there is debate and opinions but that clearly overstepped the mark.
Nicola Mclean should apologise to Aaron...his family and friends for saying what she said and also apologise to anyone who has been subject to abuse for offending them.

C5 have to take responsibility and take action.

[Gillian-73]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

I have said this on another post but as I started this one I will say it on here.

I love BB...I love wathing people interact and I love coming on this forum. Having supported Aaron from day one its hard to hear such negativity from the spin off programme about him. He has been the subject of most of the drama and he has been hugely entertaining and therefore he will get discussed more than the others. I dont watch much of BOTS because I find much of it tiresome.... HOWEVER...you simply cant have someone make such incriminating comments like that on National TV. Aaronns behaviour in the house has been HUGELY exaggerated its almost laughable... he is just a sweet guy with maybe a few insecurities and maybe too honest for his own good. No one is perfect.

I just think if these threads get read by Channel 5 they will see and recognise that allowing those comments to be voiced by a gobby wannabe was totally unacceptable.THEY WERE DEROGATORY... there is debate and opinions but that clearly overstepped the mark.
Nicola Mclean should apologise to Aaron...his family and friends for saying what she said and also apologise to anyone who has been subject to abuse for offending them.

C5 have to take responsibility and take action.

I agree with all that! only i watch bots regularly for some reason, glutton for punishment

[Suze]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

I have said this on another post but as I started this one I will say it on here.

I love BB...I love wathing people interact and I love coming on this forum. Having supported Aaron from day one its hard to hear such negativity from the spin off programme about him. He has been the subject of most of the drama and he has been hugely entertaining and therefore he will get discussed more than the others. I dont watch much of BOTS because I find much of it tiresome.... HOWEVER...you simply cant have someone make such incriminating comments like that on National TV. Aaronns behaviour in the house has been HUGELY exaggerated its almost laughable... he is just a sweet guy with maybe a few insecurities and maybe too honest for his own good. No one is perfect.

I just think if these threads get read by Channel 5 they will see and recognise that allowing those comments to be voiced by a gobby wannabe was totally unacceptable.THEY WERE DEROGATORY... there is debate and opinions but that clearly overstepped the mark.
Nicola Mclean should apologise to Aaron...his family and friends for saying what she said and also apologise to anyone who has been subject to abuse for offending them.

C5 have to take responsibility and take action.

Trouble is I don't think they will They just don't seem to act on anything or take responsibility for their's and others actions do they

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by parmnion

My dad was abusive and he had a lot of the same traits as Aaron...I'm not saying Aaron is though.

Such as?? Give examples... cause sorry I dont buy vague statements like that backed up with zero evidence.

Its like me stating, my mate is a living saint and he has the same attributes as Aaron... its vague and meaningless without proof.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by RodHull

Such as?? Give examples... cause sorry I dont buy vague statements like that backed up with zero evidence.

Its like me stating, my mate is a living saint and he has the same attributes as Aaron... its vague and meaningless without proof.

Rod,gotta hand it to you

[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by parmnion

My dad was abusive and he had a lot of the same traits as Aaron...I'm not saying Aaron is though.

Yes, I would also like you to give some examples of which traits.

I was in a abusive relationship and I can tell you the nutter was absolutely nothing like Aaron!

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Marmalite

I find your comment pretty hypocritical.

...and I literally stop reading your post at that point.

Not good to start off with name calling if you want others to understand the point you want to make. Just sayin'.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by RodHull

Such as?? Give examples... cause sorry I dont buy vague statements like that backed up with zero evidence.

Its like me stating, my mate is a living saint and he has the same attributes as Aaron... its vague and meaningless without proof.

What 'proof' or 'evidence' do you think can be provided past anecdotal?

Your obviously going to dismiss anything he says as 'vague' and 'meaningless'.

He is giving his view based off a stated personal experience, just as others have done in support of Aaron in this thread (which you have chosen to not call out obviously).

If you want me to give details of how Aaron's behaviour is passive aggressive and how he uses emotional blackmail to manipulate and control I will though of course. I have posted it before though so won't again unless thats what you are looking for.

[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by vesavius

...and I literally stop reading your post at that point.

Not good to start off with name calling if you want others to understand the point you want to make. Just sayin'.

PMSL.... Name calling?

Next you'll say I'm bullying you or being emotionally abusive

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Marmalite

Next you'll say I'm bullying you or being emotionally abusive

[Bluerang1]

Are y'all always on?

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Bluerang1

Are y'all always on?

Only when i have a boring shift that I need to pass away

Hi Blue

[Bluerang1]

I don't even mean you. Everything said about Aaron becomes fanfare, though this one was quite bad. But if she said it about Jay, come on, barely anyone would care.

[Vanessa]

This comment is slander! Totally out of order! Nicola is a twat!

[Kazelle]

I laughed out loud at the comment. Aaron has to be the wimpiest guy ever. I doubt anyone could take the comment 'abusive husband' seriously. Someone can only mess with your mind if you allow them to. Faye's only allowing the back and forth games to continue because of the air time it's giving her.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Kazelle

I laughed out loud at the comment. Aaron has to be the wimpiest guy ever. I doubt anyone could take the comment 'abusive husband' seriously. Someone can only mess with your mind if you allow them to. Faye's only allowing the back and forth games to continue because of the air time it's giving her.

It's out of order to call anyone that. Not just Aaron.

[Livia]

I'm pretty sure that the comment of a guest on a show does not necessarily reflect the opinions of the company, its affiliates and subsidiaries. Or at least that's what their lawyers almost certainly included in the smallprint.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Livia

I'm pretty sure that the comment of a guest on a show does not necessarily reflect the opinions of the company, its affiliates and subsidiaries. Or at least that's what their lawyers almost certainly included in the smallprint.

It's still out of order and Nicola should be ashamed of herself!

[GabbygalEvs]

it was a disgusting comment and the lowest theyve ever sunk

to not even say oh nicola we cant say that or thats a bit ott people just laughed

it doesnt matter if she meant mental abuse it still relates to the same thing and ive had enough of it

[MachoPoodle]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

This comment is slander! Totally out of order! Nicola is a twat!

But your insult is not out of order? Alrighty then...