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Originally Posted by *Kate*
You just shot your entire argument to pieces. Well done
You state Faye was a wreck from the start, therefore how on earth can it be down to Aaron. Yes, I do agree with you partly however, that Faye is insecure and volatile...
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Let me explain...
Faye HAS been an emotional wreck since day 1, thats true.
Aaron, as an emotional bully, recognised that and chose to take advantage of it, exasperating her mental state to feed into his need for an 'interesting' realtionship in the house. As a grown man, and an intelligent one at that who everyone tells me is a 'master game player', I can only assume it was intentional.
But then I said all this when I said,
"But still, whatever Faye is that doesn't change what Aaron is. She is obviously emotionally immature, insecure, and volatile and Aaron as a mature man should have seen that and not chosen her as his tactical fauxmance, ethically speaking"
I have never said 'Faye was perfect before she met Aaron'. Aaron hasn't made Faye what she is, but he sure as hell is taking advantage of it.
Game playing aside, passive aggressive bully types are commonly drawn to Faye's personality type, simply because they deliver what they are themselves looking for... Reaction, chaos, and, ultimately, control.