[kefln]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Who cares. Denise wiped the floor with the scabby Nicola which is all that matters really.

Yeah...

Denise used the events of a few days ago as ammo to dig herself out of ANOTHER hole. She attempted to shame someone else rather than face up to the FACT that yet again her drinking had caused problems.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by kefln

Yeah...

Denise used the events of a few days ago as ammo to dig herself out of ANOTHER hole. She attempted to shame someone else rather than face up to the FACT that yet again her drinking had caused problems.

They were all drinking.

[kefln]

Originally Posted by parmnion

They were all drinking.

Yes they were.

Yet the arguments always evolve around something that Denise says or does...

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by kefln

Yes they were.

Yet the arguments always evolve around something that Denise says or does...

A lot of it revolved around Nicola's name calling of Denise.

[kefln]

Originally Posted by parmnion

A lot of it revolved around Nicola's name calling of Denise.

You mean the "liar" comment?

Where a few hours earlier there was a question whether Denise's buzzer was working, or if she was involved in a secret task?

Something that Denise felt so strongly offended by, that she waited for hours, until she got drunk, did something stupid (again), then attempted to play the victim by lashing out at Nicola. Deflecting the responsibility of her actions by shaming someone else?

Pure class, from the bottom of a bottle...

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by kefln

You mean the "liar" comment?

Where a few hours earlier there was a question whether Denise's buzzer was working, or if she was involved in a secret task?

Something that Denise felt so strongly offended by, that she waited for hours, until she got drunk, did something stupid (again), then attempted to play the victim by lashing out at Nicola. Deflecting the responsibility of her actions by shaming someone else?

Pure class, from the bottom of a bottle...

She explained why she kept quiet only going on the attack after feeling attacked herself..no big issue for me as she wasn't even that drunk to be fair.

[kefln]

Originally Posted by parmnion

She explained why she kept quiet only going on the attack after feeling attacked herself..no big issue for me as she wasn't even that drunk to be fair.

Exactly she went on the attack when she felt attacked...

The argument started because of Denise.

Nicola tried to get twin #2 out into the garden, but Denise and Frankie kept the fighting up.

Denise then said that she didn't see what the big deal was, because twin #1 "takes her tits out for a living". Which showed her true feelings on the matter and her very unapologetic stance. However that statement enraged ex-glamour model, Nicola. Who quite rightly started to argue that past actions do not make it ok to pull someone's clothes off.

To which Denise started whining and whaling about Nicola pushing the button and been called a liar. This had nothing to do with the original argument, she just used it as ammo to divert the conversation. And it allowed Denise to play the victim, rather than the aggressor.

The woman attempted to shame another woman into silence, rather than deal with her own actions.

Amazing how Denise seems to be clearly able to remember every slight against her. But seems completely unable to understand why her own actions might have been inappropriate. The woman uses the "victim" role so effectively that she uses it to attack.