[Shanna]

From a psychological point of view, Becky is displaying classic 'if I say it first you can't hurt me' behaviours. Probably a barrier she's had in place since primary school age.

I'm seeing many vulgar comments made in regards to her weight. (Not directed at anyone here , more so on the social networking sites). Personally...these thoughts reflect directly of the person voicing them. I often hear the phrase 'see the person, not the colour' well...'see the person, not the weight'. An individuals weight does not define the person.

I eat like an elephant with the munchies. Still far too thin, but yet peoples favourite insult is skinny bitch or snide remarks with regards to having some kind of illegal addiction. So I understand fully the feelings of being judged by weight.