[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

Nice to know that you think being compared to Caroline in regards to intelligence is an insult. Funny.

It's making assumptions on people's intelligence based on a post on a BB forum. So, instead of making personal comments stick to the topic.

[kistar]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Not true. He gave her a choice.

The choice was ,if you dont listen you are going to look a complete idiot in front off everyone for not being able to handle what I am saying. Yet what I am saying involves freedom of expression, That message should work both ways Caroline may not ever want to handle that kind of personal information regardless of how mature or immature she is.

Sex , masturbation etc is personal intimate part of who you are , get on with it do it to your hearts content , if I want to know about I will ask if not keep it to your self .

I went to an all girls boarding school from the age of 7 to 17 so I know alot about the subject I also know and knew what was appropriate conversation and what one kept to oneself and ones bed fellows.

[Shaun]

And it hasn't given one a complex at all, kistar

[thesheriff443]

if he wanted to teach young people to be open and sensible when it comes to sex he should of w*nked in a condom.

[paper-cut-exit]

Ben 'gets that most people don't want to do it' - I'd more tend to believe that most people do want to do it, and enjoy doing it on a regular basis, and have no probs with it at all... knowing very well that it's a perfectly natural thing.

This guy needs to get over himself. Patronising twat!
Who the hell is interested if he jerked off in the shower, or anywhere else anyway.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by kistar

The choice was ,if you dont listen you are going to look a complete idiot in front off everyone for not being able to handle what I am saying. Yet what I am saying involves freedom of expression, That message should work both ways Caroline may not ever want to handle that kind of personal information regardless of how mature or immature she is.

Sex , masturbation etc is personal intimate part of who you are , get on with it do it to your hearts content , if I want to know about I will ask if not keep it to your self .

I went to an all girls boarding school from the age of 7 to 17 so I know alot about the subject I also know and knew what was appropriate conversation and what one kept to oneself and ones bed fellows.

So this school taught one what was appropriate conversation, but not how to use an apostrophe or that "a lot" is two words?

[flamingGalah!]

The point Benedict was trying to get across was taken in the complete wrong way by the housemates, it wasn't about him having a wank, it was their reactions to it he was trying to explain. People in this country are brought up believing that talking about sex/masturbation is wrong & is a taboo subject, because of this the UK has the highest rates of teenage pregnancy & STI's in the whole of Europe, that was the point Benedict was trying to get across but those silly immature twats in there thought he was simply trying to justify having a wank & that he wanted them to know about it because he is some sort of sexual deviant!

[MTVN]

I thought it was quite funny really, he was labouring to explain his point and getting more frustrated because they just couldn't comprehend what he was going on about

[Mrluvaluva]

To be fair, he has also said that he has to knock one out because he has a high sex drive and feels the need to. He's not just doing it for education purposes.

[lostalex]

If you've got roomates then you should keep yur cum to yourself. that's my message.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

The point Benedict was trying to get across was taken in the complete wrong way by the housemates, it wasn't about him having a wank, it was their reactions to it he was trying to explain. People in this country are brought up believing that talking about sex/masturbation is wrong & is a taboo subject, because of this the UK has the highest rates of teenage pregnancy & STI's in the whole of Europe, that was the point Benedict was trying to get across but those silly immature twats in there thought he was simply trying to justify having a wank & that he wanted them to know about it because he is some sort of sexual deviant!

none of the housemates had a problem with him masterbating, they had a problem with him dropping a load on the floor that they all walk on barefoot. I don't think anyone would have had a problem with it if he had wanked in the bathroom into a wad of toilet paper and then flushed it down the loo, they had a problem with it because he left his DNA all over the shower floor.

They would have had the same reaction if he urinated in the shower. It's not about masterbation, it's about bodily fluids in a public space.

[Kizzy]

benedict you are too late Nancy Friday beat you to it haha!

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by lostalex

none of the housemates had a problem with him masterbating, they had a problem with him dropping a load on the floor that they all walk on barefoot. I don't think anyone would have had a problem with it if he had wanked in the bathroom into a wad of toilet paper and then flushed it down the loo, they had a problem with it because he left his DNA all over the shower floor.

They would have had the same reaction if he urinated in the shower. It's not about masterbation, it's about bodily fluids in a public space.

Some of them clearly had a problem about the act itself though & didn't want to know he had done it (fair enough) so this kind of gets back to the point that they either find it disgusting or don't like to talk about such things...

It's not as if he jizzed all over the shower then left it there for someone to walk in! He cleaned the shower afterwards, so I really don't see what the problem is?? There was none left so it shouldn't really be an issue, just silly immature little girls who think it's gross & giggle at the mere mention of masturbation... Besides I think it is far more gross when people leave hair in a shower, pubic or otherwise

[kistar]

Originally Posted by Shaun

And it hasn't given one a complex at all, kistar

I mastubate more than Benedict could keep up with and I am bi sexual the list goes on but it would be inappropriate to imagine you would be interested in my sexual orientations so unlike Benedict I will keep the juicy content ,as it were , to myself.

I am more uninhibited than most but would never imagine that is the only way to be , every one is different and I have great respect for that, in my opinion Benedict should respect that individuality too.

Anyway he is going Friday maybe I will book him and tell him myself

[kistar]

Originally Posted by Livia

So this school taught one what was appropriate conversation, but not how to use an apostrophe or that "a lot" is two words?

Please see Waterhogs posts if you want to correct spelling