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Mumbles · 08-08-2012, 12:46 PM

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But she's acting like a bully herself.

No, she's acting like someone who's been bullied, given a chance at getting her own back and taking the opportunity to knock a bully down a peg or two. She's not got a group around her joining in, backing her up, laughing at her comments like Luke S had, she's taking on Luke S one to one and destroying him. That's not bullying, it's sweet revenge.

Santa's NaughtiNess · 08-08-2012, 12:51 PM

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No, she's acting like someone who's been bullied, given a chance at getting her own back and taking the opportunity to knock a bully down a peg or two. She's not got a group around her joining in, backing her up, laughing at her comments like Luke S had, she's taking on Luke S one to one and destroying him. That's not bullying, it's sweet revenge.

I think she's acting in the same way. An eye for an eye. I don't agree with that.

flamingGalah! · 08-08-2012, 12:56 PM

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I think she's acting in the same way. An eye for an eye. I don't agree with that.

Funny, you thought it was hilarious the other day

Fickle Vanessa strikes again...

Mumbles · 08-08-2012, 01:34 PM

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I think she's acting in the same way. An eye for an eye. I don't agree with that.

As I've pointed out, Deana's doing all this herself, without a group behind her backing her up. For that reason alone, this is not the same. Do you really think she should have turned the other cheek, forgiven and forgotten all they've done to her in there over the last few weeks? No way. People should stand up to bullies, if for no other reason than to show them how their actions make other people feel. Poor Lukey Wookey doesn't like it now he's on the receiving end of a bit of ribbing and getting called on his blatant lies? Well tough titties for him, perhaps in future he'll think about how his behaviour makes others feel and treat people better.

Santa's NaughtiNess · 08-08-2012, 01:36 PM

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As I've pointed out, Deana's doing all this herself, without a group behind her backing her up. For that reason alone, this is not the same. Do you really think she should have turned the other cheek, forgiven and forgotten all they've done to her in there over the last few weeks? No way. People should stand up to bullies, if for no other reason than to show them how their actions make other people feel. Poor Lukey Wookey doesn't like it now he's on the receiving end of a bit of ribbing and getting called on his blatant lies? Well tough titties for him, perhaps in future he'll think about how his behaviour makes others feel and treat people better.

Standing up for yourself is fine. But she's taking things too far. No one deserves to be goaded and provoked like that.

Mumbles · 08-08-2012, 02:04 PM

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Standing up for yourself is fine. But she's taking things too far. No one deserves to be goaded and provoked like that.

Hardly. She's not been openly nasty or abusive to Luke, she's just taken the mickey out of him and called him on his lies. While he's not the most deserving of Deana's wrath, he still deserves it. Taking things too far would be making violent threats, excluding him from things, getting together in groups to agree to nominate him every week, contantly picking at him over the silliest things, running and telling everyone else about every little indiscretion or disagreement she'd had with, him turning the rest of the house against him. Calling him Charlie and having a dig about him not being quick enough on the buzzer is very, very mild in comparison. He needs to man up and take it on the chin. He's getting off lightly.

Santa's NaughtiNess · 08-08-2012, 02:06 PM

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Hardly. She's not been openly nasty or abusive to Luke, she's just taken the mickey out of him and called him on his lies. While he's not the most deserving of Deana's wrath, he still deserves it. Taking things too far would be making violent threats, excluding him from things, getting together in groups to agree to nominate him every week, contantly picking at him over the silliest things, running and telling everyone else about every little indiscretion or disagreement she'd had with, him turning the rest of the house against him. Calling him Charlie and having a dig about him not being quick enough on the buzzer is very, very mild in comparison. He needs to man up and take it on the chin. He's getting off lightly.

I think it's far to vindictive. I don't agree with it at all.