[Mumbles]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Sorry, but i disagree. It's just as bad.

You think it's just as bad to be picked on by one person as it is to be picked on by a group of people? If Adam and Luke A had joined in and took the mick out of him at the same time it might be comparable, but Deana Vs Luke S is not comparable to Deana vs Luke s, Connor, Caroline, Ashleigh, Becky and Scott. No way.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Originally Posted by Mumbles

You think it's just as bad to be picked on by one person as it is to be picked on by a group of people? If Adam and Luke A had joined in and took the mick out of him at the same time it might be comparable, but Deana Vs Luke S is not comparable to Deana vs Luke s, Connor, Caroline, Ashleigh, Becky and Scott. No way.

I's not the same of course, but i don't like either. I don't believe in revenge.

[Mumbles]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I's not the same of course, but i don't like either. I don't believe in revenge.

I do. Sometimes it's the only way. If you've ever been bullied then you'd appreciate how satisfying it can be to get your own back on the bully. There's no such thing as karma, sometimes you have to things into your own hands because nobody will do it for you. And if nobody takes action against bullies then they'll be bullies for ever. It's only when people like that are on the receiving end that they will ever understand how much they hurt people.

Have you never wanted to get revenge on someone for a wrong they've done to you? Do you not think those who do bad things should be punished for them?

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Originally Posted by Mumbles

I do. Sometimes it's the only way. If you've ever been bullied then you'd appreciate how satisfying it can be to get your own back on the bully. There's no such thing as karma, sometimes you have to things into your own hands because nobody will do it for you. And if nobody takes action against bullies then they'll be bullies for ever. It's only when people like that are on the receiving end that they will ever understand how much they hurt people.

Have you never wanted to get revenge on someone for a wrong they've done to you? Do you not think those who do bad things should be punished for them?

Of course, but i'm a very forgiving person. I try to see the best in everyone. I think taking revenge has no purpose. It's better to rise above those who don't like you.

[optimisticcynic]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Of course, but i'm a very forgiving person. I try to see the best in everyone. I think taking revenge has no purpose. It's better to rise above those who don't like you.

That's very righteous of you, but ridiculously unrealistic and bordering on pious. Have been reading your posts and you seem to expect Deana to rise above weeks of being treated like crap, just because it will fit into your own ideal. She's not going to, and I don't blame her. If she chooses an eye for an eye as her mantra, good on her. I still prefer Adam and Luke A, and am not over-enthused with Deana but the 41 that feel Deana's a bully are clutching at straws and lacking in any empathy themselves.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Originally Posted by optimisticcynic

That's very righteous of you, but ridiculously unrealistic and bordering on pious. Have been reading your posts and you seem to expect Deana to rise above weeks of being treated like crap, just because it will fit into your own ideal. She's not going to, and I don't blame her. If she chooses an eye for an eye as her mantra, good on her. I still prefer Adam and Luke A, and am not over-enthused with Deana but the 41 that feel Deana's a bully are clutching at straws and lacking in any empathy themselves.

We'll have to agree to disagree on this then!

[jet]

Originally Posted by optimisticcynic

That's very righteous of you, but ridiculously unrealistic and bordering on pious. Have been reading your posts and you seem to expect Deana to rise above weeks of being treated like crap, just because it will fit into your own ideal. She's not going to, and I don't blame her. If she chooses an eye for an eye as her mantra, good on her. I still prefer Adam and Luke A, and am not over-enthused with Deana but the 41 that feel Deana's a bully are clutching at straws and lacking in any empathy themselves.

How very judgmental of you.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Originally Posted by jet

How very judgmental of you.

I just don't agree with the eye for an eye thing.